Unbelievable sexual desire

[Peckahminn11]

Happily in a LTR but the sex isn't there anymore. I've got this crushing urge to touch, smell, kiss any man I am attracted too. I just want to clarify I would NEVER cheat. I've never had an urge this bad before. Can anyone please give me some advise to tone down my libido, it's the highest it's been in years.

FYI I've mastered 5 times today..

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I'd bet anything you are in your 40s. Correct? Heightened libido is a known sign of peri-menopause in some women. I went through it and it was like nothing I'd known.

I agree, probably peri.

Sadly not. Late twenties

Only late 20s and a dead sex life already? That's really sad for you op. Can you live like this for decades to come? I'm not surprised you've got the horn!!

Late 20s and you're settling for no sex life? Think again.

Then, that's different (and wait until you're in your 40s!). It sounds like you're in a relationship where you might be sexually incompatible? If things aren't great now on that front, ask yourself whats going to happen in five-years time... it won't get better.

Good luck, OP.

And btw, people with a healthy sex drive like yours need sex to be fulfilled and happy. It's soul destroying to have all that sexual energy with nowhere to go. It's only going to build resentment between the two of you.

Speaking from personal experience, sadly.

I’d get out of that OP. Trust me, it does not improve!

In a similar situation to OP except I am single, early 30s. My libido is sky-high. I can not seem to stop thinking about sex. I get distracted at work because I'm fantasising about attractive men. I don't have a solution sadly.

I had the same problem OP and I’m in my 20s too - I left my relationship and got a lotttt of attention afterwards and it really makes you realise what you’re missing and that it’s nothing to do with you! Also loving being able to explore my bisexuality instead of being stuck with no sex with a man who would rather play video games 😘 xx

Get another man!!! You need it!

@Peckahminn11 Have you spoken with your DP about this? Are they having any stress in their lives, work, family, friends..?

IMHO your high drive might be a long term thing but it could also pass in time, talk and it might be that depending on the reason your DP's is low then you might be able to find a short to medium term solution that reinforces your physical and emotional relationship going forward.

It's also possible that your DP is feeling a little intimidated by your current 0-100 acceleration.

Anyway I think you are right to also be focusing on your me time and hopefully together with conversation you can find a positive way forward.

Good luck and report back!!