Advice please

[carl2]

So.. my gf and I talked a few weeks ago about her trying a sex toy. She really liked the idea and she it would be a huge turn on for her. I went ahead and bought her one as a surprise (haven't mentioned the subject again since our conversation). We're going for a weekend away next Friday and I'd like to 'surprise' her with it then. Looking for ideas of how to bring up the subject and 'present' her with the surprise. Obviously planning to wait till we're in bed but just don't know how to actually broach the subject again and get out the surprise. How does a man normally introduce such things? Sorry, I've never been in this situation before with a gf and buying a toy.

Just bring up the conversation again. I’m not sure how I’d feel if my bf had bought me a toy. I like to try them out first alone and see what feels good before I bring them into play.
I have a few for different things. One I only use when alone or for phone sex not together in bed.

My wife loves them but will not buy them, won't even look at a website. No surprises I've wasted a lot of cash but some of them have hit the spot, so to speak. Anyway, I I just say that there's some new kit on the way. She always seems happy.

Just be normal about it. How would you present any other nice thing that you'd discussed in advance with your GF?

And if it doesn't suit her, try to both have a laugh about it.

just tell her you have a surprise in store

Unless she's given you some guidance as to what kind of toy / sensation she had in mind don't be disappointed, or take it personally, if what you chose doesn't do the trick for her. Treat it as a bit of fun and an experiment and she'll be happy you made the effort even if it doesn't have her seeing stars!

Finding a great sex toy takes a bit of trial and error and it's definitely not one size fits all! 😉