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Using sex toy for first time

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Ninaxxoxx · 28/09/2023 12:24

I've been seeing a lovely guy for few months, haven't had sex yet and not under any pressure. We're both taking things slow and respect each other, not keen on rushing into anything.
Last night he suggested getting me a sex toy when I said I'd never used one before and would be quite excited to try. We both got turned on by the idea and he said he'll order me one if I tell him which I might like to try. I said no idea as it's all new to me and I've never used one before. He suggested maybe one that goes inside (sorry if tmi!) And has another bit that focused on the clit. He sent me a link and ask him to order it. He said will turn him on to use it on me and I said turned on just thinking about it.
I just wanted to ask how it feels to use for first time? Are they battery operated and who controls the speeds, depths etc? Can they noise it makes be turned down cas I hear they can be noisy. Can't wait to try it but just want to be ready for what to expect. Any tips to make the experience a turn on for him as well as me would be great.

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GigiAnnna · 28/09/2023 14:03

I think sex toys are a personal thing and you need to find one that works for you as there as lots of different types that do different things and not everyone is going to like every toy. I'd advise using it on your own before you allow someone to use it on you.

Thisismysexforumname · 28/09/2023 15:06

Completely agree with @GigiAnnna on this one. Maybe by a selection of a couple of or different types - depending on your budget of course. Dildo, vibe, clit stimulator, rabbit etc and see what you prefer. But definitely try on your own first.

StarlightLady · 28/09/2023 16:20

OP, in my view you are trying to run before you can walk. You have not had sex with this person yet, although you have been with him a few months, and you are considering toys together.

Personally if it felt right, l could not have waited so long. But aside from that, enjoy your own body with toys before you opt to share.

You might find toy time is better private.

myNewName21 · 28/09/2023 17:44

StarlightLady · 28/09/2023 16:20

OP, in my view you are trying to run before you can walk. You have not had sex with this person yet, although you have been with him a few months, and you are considering toys together.

Personally if it felt right, l could not have waited so long. But aside from that, enjoy your own body with toys before you opt to share.

You might find toy time is better private.

Tend to agree with this, have sex 1st

my partner tries out her toys on her own 1st, before introducing them

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