Orgasm isn't the same anymore

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I've been with DP for 8 years & have 2 children. He's very attentive in bed & orgasms have always been good. But recently my libido is none existent and when I do feel in the mood, i can feel an orgasm coming but it kind of just dies... and then I just want it over with asap. I don't enjoy sex at all but I don't want him to think it's him. I definitely think this is a me issue. I really hate kissing aswell. we have been up and down the past year or so and I don't know if it's an issue with my body or if I just don't want sex with HIM anymore ....

Op are you on any antidepressants? X

No xx

Menopause?

I'm only 28 - what are the other symptoms ?

Thinking that you’re not going to orgasm so why bother going through the motions with your DH can be a mindset. It has certainly happened to me a lot over the years. Feelings/ libido go up and down when you’ve been with the same person a while and you do have two kids which is tiring. You are still so young. Have you tried using a vibrator to help you get to climax?

Orgasms all have little personalities of their own, and their intensity can wax and wane over the life course. I'm sorry they're not doing it for the OP at the moment but that doesn't mean the problem is permanent. They can get stronger and more enjoyable again. It might be worth creating time for oneself to explore ideas, fantasies and things that make one horny to see if there are any things that give you a warm tingle in the loins. That at least gives you something to build on.