Over too quickly

[Swinglower]

Me and my DH went through a dry spell of a few months which ended the other day as we went away for our anniversary.

when we got down to it within 30 seconds he was finished. This has happened every time we’ve recently done it which spoils things. Has anyone else experienced this and found a way to slow it down?

before the dry spell he was fine so not sure what’s going on

I don't know what the answer is but he may have been struggling mentally and emotionally during your dry spell to the point where he feels such anxiety and pressure to perform that he's now set up to fail.

Just need to do it more. After a dry parch things can be a bit 'over responsive' .

Thanks guys we tried again this morning which lasted whilst I was on top but quickly ended when he took over. Will just have to build his confidence up slowly

This. Also, male masturbation can 'train' a rapid orgasm and he may have been wanking more during your dry spell
How old is DH? Age can affect recovery time, but the second time will last longer
Or try edging

i know he has been doing it during the dry spell but not sure how often I was also doing the same probably not as much though. He’s 35 now so not old

Perhaps spend longer with foreplay such as kissing, fondling, sensual massages. Get him to touch you or give you an orgasm first maybe. Most certainly after a dry spell, men do ejaculate quickly as the pleasure, sensations etc. can speed up orgasm.

Thanks we will try slowing it down. He did give me one first the other day so can’t complain to much

Use condoms for a while

Thanks I’ll try that as well. Makes it a lot cleaner for me he seems to be producing a lot more at the moment

Thanks everyone the tips seem to have improved things. He’s now back to his old self making it fun for me to

Happens occasionally with hubby. Seems more likely when he's having stress at work. I just don't make a thing of it as he is normally ready to go again after a short rest!

Is it that you have times of not having sex, and then he's so excited he cums quickly? Usually I find it happens when I'm away from a partner for a while. I had this recently with a FWB, I hadn't seen him in nearly a year, so the excitement was too much for him. But after a rest we did it again, and he was much more of a regular length that time. Can you try edging, to try and extend how much stimulation he can take?

he’s over it now he’s got really efficient at edging recently almost too good! If we don’t do it for a couple of weeks he’s quicker but a lot better than before. He’s never tried to go Again after he finishes so don’t know if that would make him last

Get him a cock ring for the first time after a dry spell

Jesus give the guy a chance. You had no sex together for what seems like an unreasonable amount of time. He probably had so much sexual energy built up that the release and emotional pleasure made him climax very quickly. Have sex with him daily (if you can) and things will settle down after a couple of weeks.

@Bartoz fair point. This morning was the third time this week which and was a bit longer nearly 25 minutes so things are looking good.