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Mens opinions please

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Ohffsherewegoagain · 28/08/2023 21:40

Kissing during and cuddling after casual sex… can a man really do this without feeling any attachment to the woman?

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Biggyfoot · 28/08/2023 22:09

Yes.
Some may be honest enough not to bother but it's best not to read anything into what happens before during or after sex. I'd be more interested in how they behave in between times when a shag isn't a prospect

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Ohffsherewegoagain · 28/08/2023 22:21

Thanks for your reply.
Breadcrumby messages every couple of days. Says it all I suppose.

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GentlemanJay · 28/08/2023 22:47

Yes. If I couldn't I wouldn't.

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Ohffsherewegoagain · 28/08/2023 23:08

GentlemanJay · 28/08/2023 22:47

Yes. If I couldn't I wouldn't.

You mean if you couldn’t feel an attachment you wouldn’t kiss/cuddle?

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GentlemanJay · 29/08/2023 06:53

Not an attachment as such. But kidding and cuddling is important. I suppose I can switch it on and off.

myNewName21 · 29/08/2023 19:36

Yes, it’s a lovely part of intimacy , but that doesn’t mean you have any emotional attachment to the other person

Whatajokr · 29/08/2023 21:10

Ohffsherewegoagain · 28/08/2023 22:21

Thanks for your reply.
Breadcrumby messages every couple of days. Says it all I suppose.

I'd say the messages tell the story.

My FWB cuddles and kisses me lots, and not just during sex. We send a minimum of 30 messages a day back and forth.

We both view it as casual though. It's right for us for now.

GentlemanJay · 30/08/2023 07:08

30 messages a day to a FWBs? How many times a week do you see them?

AverageGuy · 30/08/2023 08:16

Kissing & cuddling is an important part of intimacy to me. I wouldn't want a relationship (even fwb / fb) without them.

Whatajokr · 30/08/2023 11:18

We see each other once every few weeks @GentlemanJay

PinotPony · 30/08/2023 12:36

My FWB kisses and cuddles me after sex. I don't read anything into it other than it's a nice thing for us both to do. There's affection and care but I don't think that's the same as emotional attachment. He has a GF.

If it's relevant to your situation, he messages every few days and we meet every 6-8 weeks. So definitely casual.

Flatbellyfella · 30/08/2023 15:51

Kissing Cuddling & caressing is very important to great memorable sex, before & after , wether it’s a casual encounter or your regular lover.

BarryTaylor · 31/08/2023 12:24

Flatbellyfella · 30/08/2023 15:51

Kissing Cuddling & caressing is very important to great memorable sex, before & after , wether it’s a casual encounter or your regular lover.

Absolutely this. For me it's an essential part of sex whoever it's with.

Simon12 · 06/09/2023 16:17

I used to cuddle with my FWB after sex and kissing as well we liked each other by knew we were not going to be together this was over years we would both have other relationships in between
was a great relationship we both ended married to different people and she wanted to stop meeting just for coffee shame really as she was great fun to chat to as well

Mxflamingnoravera · 08/09/2023 21:38

If you've got feelings that he doesn't share then you're on a highway to heartbreak. I used to think that the afterglow tenderness and cuddles were evidence of feelings, I learned the hard way, they are not.

If it's a FWB relationship and you are catching feelings then perhaps you should stop if he clearly isn't despite the great sex and cuddles.

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