Am I weird

[niceguy80]

Me and my wife have been having conversations about opening up our sex life after she sprung it on me that she wants sex with other men.

At first I was angry but I then started getting very turned on imagining her with another guy.

We have done it with a couple and I wasn't wrong.
I loved watching her getting fucked as I had fun with his wife.

Am I strange?

Cuckloading is a thing.

No you’re not strange. I would like to open up our marriage and explore with others but I know my DH would feel that I was suggesting he’s not enough which isn’t true. It’s uncharted territory so make sure you agree some rules and have fun.

No not strange , if you are both happy with it where’s the harm, wouldn’t want to do it myself but it’s not strange

That sounds fun. I have wanted to try something like this too. How did you go about it?

Doesn't have to be Cuckolding exactly. It's arching your wife with another man and possibly jointing in. No humiliation involved. I've met lots of couples who enjoy this.

Out of interest was the sex protected?

I'm polyamorous, it's absolutely not strange. I think that would be called a Stag/Vixen relationship if you're not into humiliation. I generally have separate relationships with people, but I have a lot of group sex and it's great to see my partner happy. We're not usually ones to watch each other, but more do our own thing, but as long as you are both enjoying it then go for it. Key thing - communicate, debrief, do talk honestly about how you're both feeling and make sure you tell each other if something does make you feel bad. If you'd like community support and meet others who are open, there are places like the Unseen Lounge (website but has a Discord group that I'm active on) which is for ENM people.