I think I found a great blog aimed at men, written by a man.

[SexBoardQuestions]

https://forfuckssake.substack.com/about

I’ve only had a quick glance but thought someone might find it useful.

Thank you for sharing.I like his writing style and humour, I’ll pass it on to DP!

@SexBoardQuestions Thanks will give it a read and report back!

Thanks for this, will have a read. I started following another substack, The Sex Guides, which is a man and two women, and I find the advice really helpful (and quite detailed in an erotic but also very practical kind of way). I've always had a very sheltered and quiet life, always been good, hardworking and responsible etc, but after some health scares and approaching a big birthday, I've decided to really throw myself into all the things that make life worth living, like sex, food, travel, friends etc, and get good at them. A kind of mid-life crisis, but with great sex ;)
it's here by the way thesexguides.substack.com/
My next project is swimming, so if anyone has tips on good resources on how to get better at that let me know.

Skimmed it, sounds stupid. My husband would never take anything seriously that uses the word " cis".

Did not read past "cis"

Cis? Absolutely not.

Thanks for sharing my Substack ! :) (had to wait a week to be able to answer here)

I see people who are not my target audience already figured that out for themselves (: To each his own !

Hey you can’t win them all! I found you somewhere on Reddit originally.

I think it’s got good advice, possibly aimed at a younger demographic than some on this board ( I include myself). My teenage sons might find it useful in a few years ( heck, maybe already for all I know). I agree the “ cis “ is unnecessary. Vincent, mumsnet tends to be anti the whole “ trans women are women “ ethos hence maybe the reaction.

@SexBoardQuestions Yep, I assumed, this is where I promote it mainly for now. Glad you liked it :)

@TheGander I'm 35 myself (and been writing online for like 15 years), so naturally I'm writing in a somewhat younger language, and also generally the people asking advice I find are mostly younger. But really I think anyone could use it.

I fully support trans rights, so it's necessary for me to make that 100% clear.

The fact I'm only talking to cis men having sex with cis women is only clarified on my about page anyway, so I can both :

• write clearly most of time, aka not append a "cis" every time I write "man" or "woman" in my content (which is obviously a lot)
• AND make it clear that I'm not excluding them from my content because of any prejudice, but only because I talk only about what I know

I can see Mumsnet seems to lean conservative, but well, I don't mind if some people are stopped by the word. They'll probably not like what they read at some point anyway, so saves us all the bother.
And others will like it, hopefully :)

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I think you just talked yourself out of quite a few more readers there, matey.

I enjoyed reading it. I wouldn’t bother showing it to my husband for various reasons, all to do with him personally and not this writing itself. But I liked it.

I enjoyed it as well

I thought a lot of your advice is spot on (from a woman's perspective). Think my DH may get defensive if I encourage him to read it though!

M here, read the starter, massively impressed and signed up for more.

As for the problem with the word 'cis', get a grip folks, I thought you were the tough generation?

Must go and read the next bit. Ta-ra.

I think it's great, definitely true from a woman's perspective. Especially making sure the fingers are WET!

Thanks all for your feedback, glad you like it !

I understand it's not something that's easy to share with one's partner obviously ^^
Maybe if you kind of repeat my advice to them it would be received better, but it's still touchy. Although one of the qualities of a great lover is to be opened to feedback and not get offended. After all, those skills are learned, and not knowing everything doesn't make anyone less of a man, just someone who hasn't learned yet :)

F here. Loved the intro page, and your style of writing @VincentAupry