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CplT · 14/08/2023 08:53

What are other people's thoughts on talking while having sex?

My wife and I have got into it over the past couple of years and we both enjoy it it, although I think I was rubbish at it at the start! I would almost forget how to speak!

I stay away from cheesy cliche's but was thinking about how other people use it and how far to take it?

TIA

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DixonD · 14/08/2023 09:53

We do a bit. I like it but my husband is a bit more reserved. He might say the odd thing but it’s usually me. We don’t chat the whole way through though, just the occasional comment 😁

I think it would be a bit weird to not say anything at all!

MaryJean87 · 14/08/2023 11:42

I am quite vocal when something feels good and I like a bit of dirty talk during. My husband stays quiet though. He orgasms quietly and doesn't enjoy sex talk as he says he gets embarrassed. It's a shame as it has the power to turn me on even more.

AbraKadabraPoof · 14/08/2023 13:11

Suppose it depends what you mean by talking?

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CplT · 14/08/2023 13:26

@AbraKadabraPoof yes, good point. It generally starts off quite basic really, sort of compliments and how much you enjoy xyz etc. It can then progress to being more intimate and graphic and possibly describing things that you may like.

I appreciate here that things that you say while in this state of mind may not actually relate to what you would actually do.

I suppose apart from not wanting to say anything 'stupid' I enjoy the look on my wife's face when her imagination is kicking in. It's good to hear other opinions and see if others enjoy it and in which way. It may just help me to keep the material 'creative'.

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AbraKadabraPoof · 14/08/2023 14:11

CplT · 14/08/2023 13:26

@AbraKadabraPoof yes, good point. It generally starts off quite basic really, sort of compliments and how much you enjoy xyz etc. It can then progress to being more intimate and graphic and possibly describing things that you may like.

I appreciate here that things that you say while in this state of mind may not actually relate to what you would actually do.

I suppose apart from not wanting to say anything 'stupid' I enjoy the look on my wife's face when her imagination is kicking in. It's good to hear other opinions and see if others enjoy it and in which way. It may just help me to keep the material 'creative'.

yeah we do that too, it depends on the time and mood I suppose as well. I’m not a big fan of dirty talk and neither is DH jut because some dirty talk sounds straight from porn which I don’t like

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CplT · 14/08/2023 15:24

Yes, the 'porn' lingo is something I want to avoid. Talking in an intelligent but sexual way that doesn't sound too ridiculous is also difficult though. It's fine line.

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SpringleDingle · 14/08/2023 15:26

We don't discuss the politics of the day mid-shag but the odd comment about something feeling great or asking if the other person would like X or Y is normal. I don't really like dirty talk and neither does my current partner so mostly we are not chatty Cathys.

PinotPony · 14/08/2023 21:24

My primary partner and I happily talk during sex. We have no qualms about asking for what we want or saying how much we're enjoying something.

I see someone else on a regular basis who is great at filthy talk, telling me in detail what we're going to do, making me beg for it... it's so fucking hot!

Rhass · 15/08/2023 15:39

I guess it’s ok once you not discussing bin collection half ways through 🤣

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