Advice for games/ice breakers to spice up/communicate?

[Junebughustle]

DH and I have finally addressed the fact that our sex life slowed down to levels neither of us are happy with. Some of the reasons we can start addressing (eg going to bed at similar times), but I'm struggling as I used to be a very sexual, adventurous person but have struggled to show that side to my DH as he is slightly more reserved.

Any advice for some card games/conversation starters to give us some prompts to explore each other better?

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You could try each writing down something you would like to try in the bedroom or a new position to try. Fold them up and put them in a jar.
Each time you go to bed take it in turns to pick one from the jar

Quite a few games on love honey. I bought a packet of position of the week cards for a guy I was seeing, but lots of other games. Also browse on there, why not select one item each from there per month, without discussing, and enjoy! Must admit it’s harder I think when the guy is the more reserved. I really found myself sexually when I started dating someone who was very confident in bed and clearly had a lot of experience, I’d always been curious and had dabbled with some light bondage in my late teens but ever since had pretty boring sex. So it was an awakening for sure. Love honey / similar websites have some great stuff for spicing things up.

Thank you! Will try these. I've also found an online questionnaire 'we should try this' which may facilitate a good starting point for conversations.

We are both decently experienced and utterly in love and communicate well in every area except this one for some reason :(