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Threesome behaviour husband

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Cherry44 · 27/07/2023 09:27

Im hoping someone with a bit of experience might be able to give me some advice.
A while ago husband and i had our first threesome with another man.
Husband didn’t want this other man kissing me on the lips which was fine. We agreed it was just about sex husband especially didn’t want me interacting with the other man which again I accepted. So imagine my surprise after the event when husband starts chatting away to this guy for a good 20 mins and asks for his instagram!!!!
The following day, husband tells me how aroused he was by this man’s penis.
Now on osassion my husband likes me to wear a strap on but denies being bisexual but I presume if he was aroused by this man’s penis then he must be bisexual? he is not interested in a threesome with another woman whatsoever
Thoughts please
BTW I really enjoyed the threesome no regrets just trying to understand my husband

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chocolateonmyface · 02/08/2023 20:22

One good is that he discussed his feelings with you and didn't go behind your back (in contrast with you 🤔)

Men who have sex with Men is a known concept, with straight men having sex with other gay or straight men, have a Google and read.

GiveOverRover · 03/08/2023 13:17

This isn't as much an issue with labelling your DH sexuality, rather there is a gaping void where a load of respectful and honest communication needs to be if opening up your sex life and bringing in other parties is going to be successful.

How much communication did you have about this threesome before, and after the event? Or was it something that you did once and put back in the box, because you felt it was checked off the list?

Banana1979 · 05/08/2023 07:53

Thorninhisside · 27/07/2023 14:54

Given that your husband wanted a threesome with another man, then I'm guessing that watching his wife have sex with another man is a huge turn on for him.
In that scenario, it's not really a surprise that he got aroused by the other man's penis, since the other penis was the focal point of the event, so to speak.
So, seeing close up this cock entering his wife was bound to have an effect on him.
I wonder whether it was the other cock or the whole scenario in general that was the main turn on?

He might not describe himself as bisexual, in the sense that he doesn't look at other guys and think "ooh, he's nice looking" in the way he might with women.
But put in a highly sexual context, the sight of an erect cock clearly had an arousing effect.

I've seen in other forums straight guys describing themselves as "orally bi." They don't find men attractive in general but are turned on by an erect penis and like to touch and suck another man.

Would it bother you if he was bisexual?
I don't really see the need to identify with labels.
So long as you have a good relationship and can enjoy yourselves in an open and honest way, does it matter?

Men who give other men oral sex are bi. Ridiculous to suggest otherwise

TheoTheopolis23 · 05/08/2023 14:19

Men who have sex with Men is a known concept, with straight men having sex with other gay or straight men, have a Google and read.

They're not straight.

They say they're straight and they like to think they're straight, but they're not straight.

itsmyp4rty · 05/08/2023 14:30

I think you've made the point OP that in many cases a married couple deciding to have a threesome is just like putting a bomb in the middle of the relationship. It sounds though like you're either a troll or this relationship is a complete joke.

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