Sex and stress

[sugarfeather2]

Hi ! Me and my husband always had a "good" connection about sex, but now, we are in adoption journey, we are son stressful that m'y body seems to refuse to relax for sex, even if I want it.
Advices ?

I think its a normal reaction to be honest. I very rarely turn down an opportunity for sex, but if/when I do, its usually because I am stressed or unwell. If you are both stressed, it can be an opportunity to de-stress yourselves if you can get in to it - caveat: dont force yourself to have sex you don't want, or the other person wants to make them happy.

Try OM (orgasm meditations)

@Mysticguru oh, I've never heard about this ! I'm gonna search about it, but can you explain how does it work ?

@Thisismysexforumname don't worry, I'm not gonna force myself to anything.

I think you're right, i'm gonna try to relax.

@sugarfeather2
You'll understand when you've done the research. I would also add that it's a good idea to have a tantric shower meditation beforehand. Best if you alternate between you and your partner too.
The build up and expectation can be a turn on in itself.

Thats good to hear. Good luck!