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International BDSM Day

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Mermaidparades · 24/07/2023 13:22

Happy International BDSM Day to all those who choose to celebrate 💋

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DixonD · 24/07/2023 13:26

Have a great day!

xpc316e · 24/07/2023 13:46

I didn't know that it was BDSM Day, but I did celebrate the lifestyle by crafting a very nice leather collar in my shed this morning. I also fine-tuned the tress of my home-made riding crop.

Fruititty · 25/07/2023 16:55

Goodness me you sound very handy!! 😁

Mermaidparades · 25/07/2023 20:01

@xpc316e I think I’d love a nosey in your shed!!! Enjoy the fruits of your labour 💗

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xpc316e · 26/07/2023 10:43

Mermaidparades, here's some of my work.

The black collar with the red contrast stitching and padding was made for my partner. It was a labour of love.

International BDSM Day
International BDSM Day
International BDSM Day
xpc316e · 26/07/2023 11:19

If anyone is interested, and I'd fully expect you not to be because I am a leatherwork nerd, my items are made from vegetable-tanned leather that is all hand-sewn using the traditional, twin needle method. No rivets are ever used, as they concentrate stress in one area, whereas stitching spreads it over a large surface. Saddlery always uses stitching, because the thought of perhaps four horses breaking free because of a failed rivet doesn't bear contemplating.

Traditional, twin needle stitching allows for one line of thread to break without the seam coming unravelled, as machine sewing does. I know that Subs are weaker than horses, but you can never be too careful in a BDSM scene. Hand stitching takes ages compared with either rivetting, or machine sewing, but the results are aesthetically much more pleasing and infinitely more durable.

All my collars are finished with bevelled, burnished edges, unlike the mass-produced dross with which the market is saturated. If you'd like to know more about collars and harnesses for BDSM play, then please message me.

MrsBrollie · 26/07/2023 11:22

Hubby and I decided to give it a bit of a go. Basically he tied my hands to my ankles, and performed irrumatio on me to completion, it was a very intense expereince but I had a huge sense of achievement at the end, I really enjoyed it, there was no physical pleasure, it was all in the mind. He offered to manually pleasure me afterwards but I told him to wait for the morning.

Im not very submissive but it was exciting to change things up.

Mermaidparades · 26/07/2023 12:25

Hand sewing leather? How do you not shred your skin?! That’s impressive. Your work looks beautiful and I’m sure your partner feels amazing wearing a bespoke piece, crafted by you!

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Mermaidparades · 26/07/2023 12:26

@MrsBrollie you jumped right in, I’m glad you enjoyed the experience 💗

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Mermaidparades · 26/07/2023 12:27

Apologies @xpc316e , I forgot to reply directly to you xx

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Fruititty · 26/07/2023 14:33

Xpc316e they look amazing. I especially like the look of the collar 😊

Catullus5 · 26/07/2023 16:46

That's very impressive xpc316e!

xpc316e · 26/07/2023 19:59

Mermaidparades here is a short video that shows a little hand sewing. It isn't as bad as one imagines, because the holes are made with a pricking iron beforehand. The needles used are actually blunt and have round ends.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Tu5zOmbTuEw

Before you continue to YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Tu5zOmbTuEw

Mermaidparades · 26/07/2023 21:10

@xpc316e ah that makes sense!! Such an intricate pastime.

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everywhichway · 26/07/2023 22:18

Yes, I think I've seen that hand stiching done on the Repair Shop. I don't recall anyone bringing in a BDSM restraint collar though.

xpc316e · 27/07/2023 12:41

everywhichway, just give it time. My descendants may well turn up with a precious family heirloom - a collar that great grandpa made for great grandma to wear during their BDSM scenes.

Wheredoistart78 · 30/07/2023 13:43

Can I ask about BDSM here?

everywhichway · 30/07/2023 13:54

Of course. There's quite a few practitioners on here who'll be happy to help with Qs etc!

Wheredoistart78 · 30/07/2023 14:18

@everywhichway thanks!
So my partner and I are a bit filthy, we give most things a go. Very open with each other and very happy to please one another

He wants me to punish him but I'm not sure how. He's open to anything and I'm looking for ideas please.

xpc316e · 30/07/2023 15:27

There are two main ways to punish someone: one is psychological and the other is physical pain, or of course a combination of both. One might punish your husband by forcing to kiss your feet after doing all the housework naked, or you could take a riding crop to his buttocks. The choice is yours.

Catullus5 · 31/07/2023 05:16

Following on from xpc316e's contributions, my DW does it by laughing at me when I try to mend my jeans. Try that. 😉

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