Could anyone explain what things are like with a submissive male?

[Loopylooni]

This is something I've been a bit curious about as I've been approached by someone who considers themselves submissive. I don't think I know myself enough to know what Iike in bed and have always been a bit experimental but I've never met anyone who says it up front. Could anyone share their experiences? I'd hate a man who expected me to take the lead everywhere in life.

My 2p's worth.
A Dom / Sub relationship doesn't have to be sexual, but there are LOTS of questions to try and answer here...

Do you consider yourself dominant at all? Does the possibility of being dominant to a male turn you on? If you've ever fantasised about it, what does that domination look like?

There are all sorts of forms of D/S relationships - you BOTH need to get something from it. The most important thing is communication with your prospective partner.

You need to agree on what your relationship will look like - maybe even draw up a document...

Do they want to be restrained? Do they like to be humiliated? Do they want to dress up? Do they want impact play? If so, what type? Is it to be confined to the bedroom, or more? What are their limits, what are YOUR limits? is PIV on the table? What about orgasm denial / edging? and these are just the beginning...

Happy to help more, if I can...

The D/S dynamic will vary in a lot of areas. I am a dominant man myself, but only in the bedroom, and would cringe at having my female partner being anything other my equal in every other area of our lives.

A huge 'well done' to this man for laying out his kink cards on the table at the start of a potential relationship. That takes bravery and honesty. He is obviously open and it sounds as though he is ready to discuss matters. You therefore need him to define exactly what he wants from his submission. If that aligns with what you might want then Bingo! If not, then you need to look elsewhere for sexual satisfaction.

Best wishes.