Tips and tricks

[Biscuitz1]

Does anyone have any that they want to share.
I'm 27F
Partner is 28M
Both of us are pretty inexperienced ( my first, his 3rd)

i would suggest pleasure mapping as a priority! Keep communication open and playful during sex, the last thing you need I’d for one partner to get huffy if they’re asked to do something differently.

Show your partner how you touch yourself, what pace and pressure you like. Ask him to guide you, hand over hand, how he likes to be touched.

Hes your first sexual partner…don’t put impossible expectations on yourself. I wish I’d known that sex is not like the movies when I started my sexual explorations! Sometimes penises come out of vaginas at inopportune moments, bodies make weird noises together, he might not get an erection every time/ he may come too quickly/ you might not come at all. Try to keep the mood light and free from pressure and performance anxiety for you both!! Never ever fake an orgasm, as it gives false positive feedback. Have fun!! Enjoy each other’s bodies!

https://www.touchofhappiness.co.uk/pleasure-mapping-for-couples/

@Mermaidparades thanks

Wonderful advice from @Mermaidparades and very true! I would add that keeping your connection is important & maintaining intimacy is key, especially in between having sex. What a wonderful situation to be in, where you and your partner can explore (& laugh) together.

If you are on Instagram, I would recommend following hello Jenny Keane. She is a sex educator & has just recently released some online workshops related to building skills but also connections. They do tend to sell out quickly though. You stay anonymous & you and your partner can watch them together. This is her website: https://www.jennykeane.com/

Good luck & enjoy yourselves.

Communication communication communication.
Try not to say "no", but rather direct you partner to where you will say "YESSS".
Remember to look after your relationship outside of the bedroom. When your relationship is having problems, so will your sex life.

Sex is very much in the head as well as the body. Take your time, stay relaxed, don't take things too seriously. It's a learning process. Enjoy.

Learn the art of sensual massage. A great way to learn more about each others bodies and erogenous zones without penetrative sex.
Tisserand massage oil from Holland and Barrett are great, make sure you heat oil in bowl of warm water first.

Above all communicate what feels good, and what your desires are, allow openess to explore new things, they might not always float your boat but that's OK move on and discover something else instead that does. Have fun and keep it light humoured.

There is no instruction or rule book when it comes to sex
Just do what feels right and nice for both of you
Communication is the key ask him what he likes and feels good let him know what you like and what feels good for you
Most of all don't be too serious about it sex is fun so if your bodies make a funny noise have a giggle about it don't be embarrassed
Some of the best sex I've had we've had to stop at times to giggle together due to noises or a foot slipping off the bed ( down to it being placed too close to the edge)

Good luck and have fun that's what it's all about

great post from mermaid.

@pendleflyer aw thank you! 😘

My DW loves her breast being lightly massaged with my finger tips specially underneath her boobs (the lighter and more sensitive touch the better. Move to circle around your areola but never touch the nipple, this will start to get you very horny as you are being denied your nipples from stimulation. When you are ready get him to squeeze and pull your nipples as hard as bearable then start to lick the tips of your nipples. This will send sensations all over especially your clit, this can be enhanced buy using the adjustable hair clip type nipple clamps. If you want you could give him oral at the same time but he must never touch you down below. The aim is to get you really turned in and wanting finishing with a nipple orgasm.