FWB question

[scarletclive]

I started a FWB with a co-worker. We're both single and this situation suits us.

I told my mate about it the other day she wasn't phrased etc and never condemned me but she said if your looking for a FWB you could of done better than your that Co-worker as he's got a beer belly and not good looking. To be honest she is right but I find him attractive due to his sense of humour, his confidence and his high held job and that he is is successful. Friend said to go online for a good looking guy, I don't want to go online to get s FWB as the whole online thing I don't like but I guess that way I could get someone more attractive. She met co worker when she visited me for work for lunch previously.

Am I a odd for having a FWB with a non attractive guy? And that I find him attractive despite him not being attractive ?

well I find it odd for sure that one of the big pluses in favour of someone who is just a fuck buddy is his high flying job and supposed success. Call me innocent but I thought it was supposed to be about the sexual communication/chemistry.

Pay no attention to your friend. If you find your FWB attractive, for whatever reasons, that is all that needs to be said about the situation. If she doesn't think he's attractive, that is her business.

As long as you fancy him that's all that matters. Sexual attraction comes down to more than what is conventionally attractive. Often people's flaws are what make them cute.

What does it Matter what your coworker thinks? , are you happy with the situation?

Thanks for the replies and I forgot to mention he makes me feel very sexy and attractive like he really wants me so that in turn makes me likes him and turns me on. I dunno if that is odd of me as well. Saying that I don't just fancy any guy who fancies me, if a guy i was repulsed by really fancied me, I wouldn't have sex with him just because the guy was very attracted to me, however with the co worker it's a combination of things including that he makes me feel super hot

Enjoy it, I didn't fancy my DP at first but the chemistry was overwhelming. His personality, the ability to make me laugh, I always want to talk to him, respect his opinion, makes me feel sexy, the sex. It's the whole package and wouldn't swap it any day for someone who's physically "better looking" with no chemistry

Surely the only 2 things that matter are

1. you enjoy his company
2. you come a lot when you have sex 🤪

You find him attractive and it’s you having sex with him not your friend. I agree that it’s other stuff that attracts us to people not just looks. Ignore her

I think it's up to you to pick a FWB you're happy with, not your friend.
Not sure why their opinion matters!

If you fancy him for whatever reason, you get on well together and the sex is good isn't that what FWB is all about? Your friends idea of FWB sounds more like NSA