Younger men

[CuriousNC]

I’m rather worried about posting this because I don’t want to come across as creepy or weird. I’m single at the moment and have been for quite a bit. Having not long got my mojo back I’ve noticed that I’ve been wondering more about men younger than me (in my 40s). I’d say 21+. Is that strange? I’ve not done anything and wouldn’t know where I could speak to younger men anyway, especially those that are sensible and mentally mature

I am an old man (I am 76).
I see nothing wrong with you wanting to enjoy time with a younger man as you do say 21+. You are looking for someone who can decide what he wants.
When my son was about 23 one of his friends met a lady in her 40s and moved in with her and 20 years later they are still together and very happy.

I've been the younger man on a number of occasions. I've met older women in pubs,clubs and even once at church. Some have been married. The biggest age gap was 17 - 42.
I have very fond memories of those beautiful women.

I think if you went online looking for a younger man, you would have them queuing around the block, a lot will probably be looking for the mature woman experience

Thanks for your reply and reassurance. I would say I wouldn’t want to form a relationship, it would just be no strings attached (if I actually did). And 21 is probably the lowest I’d go. Chances are it would be between 25-31

Yeah I’d imagine so, only thing is with younger men comes a bigger chance of immaturity, wanting to be rough and inconsiderate. Maybe I’m generalising a bit there but I’d imagine it’d be difficult to find someone kind and patient.

I am in my 50s and did OLD last year. Lots of men in their 30s interested. Some with young children and ex girlfriends, looking for an uncomplicated fling with someone who wouldn't want marriage and more kids!

Had a couple of ONS with a 35yo and 37yo. Both were great in bed, not at all rough, and very keen on giving pleasure! And a few dates with a very buff 35yo gardener who was ex-army (injured in Afghanistan) and incredibly mature for his age. He was just too busy with work, kids and rugby however.

Now in a relationship with a guy 10yrs younger. He has a lot of baggage so we only see each other once a week (and sex only ever fortnight or so) but it suits my lifestyle as I'm often away. He's very uncomplicated emotionally and we just have fun together without any worry about where it's going.

Younger men are definitely worth a go and you'll find them very willing! And they really dont care about the mum tum, wrinkles, stretch marks or grey hairs 🤣

I (now 58) was introduced to sex by a woman I called 'aunty' but who was actually a close family friend. Anyway, I was 18 or 19 and she was 43 I think. Once I got over my intense shyness - we talked openly about sex a lot but I was brought up conservatively - she was a wonderful and patient teacher. Without her I wouldn't have known that women can love sex as much as if more than men, I didn't know about female orgasms beforehand, she taught me about giving oral to her for hours at a time (what a treat for me), we explored lots of positions and locations and she reinforced the ideas of passion and intimacy, rather than wham bam thank you mam. Given that I never saw my parents even miss, it was a wonderful experience for me and one I'd repeat in a heartbeat. She's in her early 80s now and just as desirable - perhaps she's cemented a personal fetish in me, who knows...

I can understand your reticence. but go for it.

we only live once, and the age group you are referring to, won’t complain. Just don’t let it turn your head into a relationship, although not impossible, it would be far more difficult than just a Bit of fun.