rejected

[Daisymoo222]

If u have tried it on with your partner/ sex/ oral and they say no do u feel rejected? X

No. But we have a good sex life and I feel safe in our relationship so a "no" is not a rejection but an expression of a preference in that moment.

Thank u for the reply.

My partner is older than me, can take or leave sex. I initiated sex and he said no as needed to shower ...understand reason , I just felt a bit ...oh ...OK.

My previous partner was sex obsessed , to the point where EVERY kiss HAD to lead to sex . There was sexual abuse too,think that at times my past does affect my present. I don't know.

It’s very normal to feel rejected by it yes. I’m single right now but yes I’d probably feel a bit hurt if I was feeling quite horny and my partner knocked me back. I see posts on here all the time saying that so you’re definitely not alone.

Not everyone will feel in the mood at the same time, so there is bound to be rejection at some stage, it’s part of acceptance of being in a relationship
try to think it as the offer has been turned down, but not the person