How often do you have sex per month? 17 years together and early 50's

[Thinkingofmovingtosea]

Hi there,
Curious to know how often you "get it on" per month.. especially if in your 50's and together a long time.... Thanks

Virtually nothing here either sadly. I'm 57, DH 65. Problems with ED over last 7-8 years. Viagra helps but he admits now he has no sex drive... not interested in using toys, oral sex, touching...., I'm so sad that this might be it. It's always me that initiates any conversation about it, then I end up upset and nothing changes. Recently gone into separate bedrooms too.

35 and 42, about once a month. Three kids including a one year old. Been together 13 years.

Just turned 50, been together 22 years. We have had sex 11 times in 2023, 7 times in April due to a holiday! Bit since we came home 4 weeks ago there has been no physical contact from my DW at all. So it's a real feast or famine due to her yo-yo peri desire. We are away next week as well, so it might pick up again.
Usually if at home, we would average twice a month, Usually agreed and in the diary, with no spontaneity at all due to two teenage girls at home who don't go to bed early or sleep in during the mornings

Dp and I don't live together but I stay at his about 3 nights a week. Have sex a couple of times each time I'm there

Both mid 50’s, been together about 5 years. Not as much as I’d like!!!
Despite me being in the throes of menopause I still have a healthy libido but OH’s is not as high as mine, currently about 2-3 times a month. I’d rather it was 2-3 times a week.

Female 40s here, possibly 2 or 3 times over a weekend, very rarely during the week; too tired. And if I'm honest not always with the same person, no judges comments though please. It's the way I feel life should be.

early 40’s been together 10 years and do it almost every night.

so far not once this year

Male 50, F 51, about 4-5 times a week. Two teens 16, 13. We have evenly matched desire for sex Id say.

Thanks all - refreshing to know that we all have peaks and troughs.. life is busy and stressful and just need to make more time/ effort.

Both 58 years old, married 32 years, about 4 times per year. Not a good situation, and about once per year we try to figure out ways to improve our relationship, usual by having an awkward, uncomfortable conversation, which has never made much difference.