Advice for ‘unicorn’

[WoahNellyNC]

After being single for a while now I want to start getting out there and exploring my fantasies before I get too old. I’d love to have a threesome with a nice couple to be honest, that’s a big thing. Anyone know how best to go about finding such a thing? Or advice on how to communicate? Thanks

Interested on people's responses as we'd potentially be looking for a 'unicorn' one day but I'd literally have no idea where to even go about finding something like that 🙈

@rach haha join the club then 😅

If you are in London or some if the big cities - have a look at Killing Kittens.
Nice supportive female community and lots of couples you can talk to and meet socially as well as at events.

I have been on both sides of it, so here is my take on it.

Generally - there is lots of couples that seek unicorns - so you’ll be able to have your pick.

It can be a lot of fun when you find a good fit and chemistry that goes three ways. For me - I think what makes it work is a couple that is happy with each other - and are doing it for a joint experience. Rather than when one of the couple doing it for the other; and not really into it.
And of course they both need to want you to have a good time with them.

Obviously you won’t know how it is until you are actually behind closed doors - but some can be gauged from communication - how and what they’d talk to you about what you are looking for.

As to the communication - like with any connections - respect is key. As a first timer - I’d probably chose a couple who have done it before. Have some get to know each other chats, go for a drink. See how it feels. And then - if it feels right - have all the fun you want! And don’t look back

@josuk thanks for the reply.

Sadly I’m not in a big city so I don’t think Killing kittens is an option for me.

Yes exactly, I want a down to earth couple that I would have good chemistry with. They’d have to be comfortable in their relationship too as obviously want to avoid any sort of drama.

@WoahNellyNC

Joining is free - I’d have a look anyway.
You may need to travel somewhere to meet people in any case - as you want a degree of anonymity.

personally (as an ex unicorn) I'd suggest looking for fb groups for swinging - you may need to set up a new profile so it isn't linked with your regular one! I didn't know they existed when I did it :) alternatively set yourself up a fabswingers profile but be warned its a bit of a circus so just use it to find events and parties that you can go to.

Alternatively (if you are in the nw) send me a PM - I'm now part of a couple and we've had a couple of FFM experiences, happy to chat :)

@Tiger2018 Thanks tiger, I haven’t actually used FB in ages 😵‍💫 I might check out fabswingers

@Tiger2018 Do you mind if I drop you a message? I'm in the nw and interested on learning a bit more about everything

@Tiger2018 Do you mind if I drop you a message? I'm in the nw and interested on learning a bit more about everything

Absolutely no problem at all :)

Most people I know who tried both Fab and KK - tend to prefer KK.
Certainly the women, as it Fab does seem to be more full on and less respectful at times.

^^^ What @josuk said..

I found KK to be infinitely preferable to FAB. You might not be in a big city near parties and events but if you jump on the chat groups you'll get loads of great advice from novice and veteran unicorns and couples.

Then you can search profiles for couples closer to home who are specifically looking for a women to join them.

Best piece of advice I can give is to be really clear about the rules of engagement. My unicorn friend had a bad experience when the wife left the room and returned to find them fucking. She flipped out as the couple had agreed not to play when the other wasn't present. Foolishly they'd not told my friend about the rule. She felt awful, even though it was their fault.

Feeld is full of people wanting this sort of thing. But tbh i found even on Tinder if you're straightforward about what you're looking for, you'll get offers.

I've seen quite a few ppl on here looking for this too!

Op knows what a unicorn is, but no idea where to look for a couple.....?

I’ve had several couples like my profile on KK and Bumble too. If you’re honest about what you want, I’m sure you won’t have a problem finding it. And I’m nowhere near a city…

Download Feeld - easy!

I’ve been in a unicorn situation a couple of times. Used both Fab and Feeld. Feeld seemed very much of a younger demographic, with lots of couples looking to experiment for the first time. Fab can be a bit murky, with lots of fake profiles to wade through, plenty of single men pretending to be couples, or men whose partner clearly wasn’t nearly as invested in the whole thing as they were. But there are also lots of couples on there who have been on the scene for ages, and are at ease with how it works.
My tips would be -
Make sure you message, and speak with both of the couple before any meeting.
Don’t get involved with a couple who don’t live together. You don’t want to accidentally be part of an affair that you don’t know is happening.
Be REALLY clear about safe sex. Obvious, but it’s harder to do when there are three of you, IYSWIM
Get clarity on exactly who wants to do what to who. I wanted to meet a couple where the woman was bisexual, and most were, but by no means all.
Have a drink beforehand, but only one! I was absolutely bricking it beforehand, never been so far out of my comfort zone.

make it fun and look on holiday - if you don't link up you'll have fun, and if you do it and they turn out to be creeps it's easier to do a disappearing act

Hey feel free to message me. Happy to share a photo with you. We're looking for someone like you ❤️

Look at your local swinging club / fab (which is dier) there’s a new app called pineapple you could give that a try

There is a MN chat group on KK (unofficial) for those thinking of trying KK.

Did you manage to find anyone x

After my first marriage broke up I decided to explore sex more. Amongst other things I became the unicorn for quite a few couples. I found Killing Kittens to be the best site. I would only agree if it was the woman who asked me. I would talk to her first on the phone. Then I would arrange to meet the two of them for a drink and say that nothing would happen that night, it was just for a drink to explore whether the three of us wanted to have sex together.

You have to agree the boundaries. I said it was only the woman who could contact me. Nothing would happen if the three of us were not in the room together. The guy had to wear a condom when he was having sex with me. And no photos.

I was nervous when I first did it but soon got into the swing of it. I met some really good couples who I enjoyed having sex with. If you met them you would not expect them to be into that sort of thing. Lots of normal couples.

If any women want to talk a bout this please feel free to private message me.

I should also say that I also had sex with two men. However, I would only do this if I knew one of the guys and trusted him. It was usually a guy that I would be meeting just for sex and I would ask him if he wanted to bring a friend along. That was a lot of fun!