No sex in over 3 years

[DGConsultant]

Hi all,
Frequent commenter, first time poster, though I've not been around in a while.
Bloke, 36, single, good job, although that might change with redundancies at my firm and the macroeconomic climate, but sadly no sex in far too long. Honestly, you get used to It, so I'm not wining.
It would be fair to say that I badly need a physical relationship, but would prefer to go down the "traditional" dating route.
I've tried most things, ruled out work, complications and unprofessional, I go out but no success, I put this down to me not expecting to meet someone and this being non-verbally communicated, and finally online dating just turns me off, time wasters and no real opportunity to indulge in back and forth, go no where text games.
I'm also totally blind, and this must be a genuine factor in me not being lucky in the dating game and not getting laid as often as I'd like.
No escorts, couldn't stomach paying for sex!
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The question is, what the hell should I do to solve this implacable problem!... I'm fucked if I'm not going to shag ever again...
Solutions gratefully accepted...
Best!

Running is sexy because it takes both physical and mental strength. Do you do Park Run? Lots of people seem to meet romantic prospects there.

Sounds as though you're already doing all the right things regarding organising and paying for dates. As you say, some women don't like to be paid for, in which case let them pay. It's a bit of a controversial view on Mumsnet, but I personally feel it establishes a better sexual dynamic if the man pays.

I mention the thing about complimenting a woman's physical attractiveness because I think a lot of men don't realise how much women crave this type of affirmation. Admittedly, I'm quite vain, but a major barrier to me dating a blind guy is that I'd be thinking, 'what's the point if he's not going to be able to appreciate my beauty'. Again, I'm shallow!

I understand that. My mother was deaf and she rejected the idea of being involved in any sort of deaf community - she said the only thing they had in common was being deaf. Sorry to have suggested it.

@DGConsultant I have read your posts on here and think you sound lovely, intelligent and respectful of women. Naturally you're feeling frustrated, and I think it's normal to address the paying for sex factor, it is going to cross people's minds as a solution, why not be realistic about it! I have a friend who has hardly ever had sex who is genuinely considering paying for the male equivalent to help her gain confidence. Not sure it's the best route but I totally understand her thinking.

No advice, I'm sorry to say, but I wish you all the very best and luck, I think you'd be a great catch for anyone.