tiny penis

[NeedAnAnonNameForThis]

Am on OLD, and a bloke I found interesting to chat to has told me he has a very small penis. Now, I know everyone online is lying ;) but assuming I find him interesting enough to meet up with again after an initial date at the weekend, should things progress to sex, how does it work on a practical level? Meaning PIV sex, what positions etc work best (I can manage to work out the non PIV bits myself!)?

My previous experience with a smaller one was pretty rubbish (but that will have been mostly exH being in total denial that there was anything more to sex than roll on-roll off), but this bloke is telling me he's properly tiny, which is a lot different.

Any experiences/suggestions for where to look for advice?

also, something which has just occurred to me, I'm assuming you can get condoms for much smaller sizes?

Condoms do come in various sizes in terms of girth yes...most if not all will accommodate almost any length. So if his girth is within normal range then you should find a suitable condom.

I'd be put off this at the chatting stage, and would assume he has some kind of humiliation fetish (yes, it absolutely does exist!).
I don't know, it seems odd to me. Like I wouldn't tell a guy I was chatting to that my vag isn't as tight as I'd like it to be due to childbirth!

It just smacks of oversharing at too early a stage, but maybe just me.

I agree though...an odd fact to share on date #1!

no, I can see why he would want to say early on to save wasting time with someone it would be a dealbreaker for. And I did ask about the humiliation fetish, as depending on the extent, that could be a dealbreaker for me. Easier to get it out in the open (as it were!) in advance. Maybe I'm just used to slightly kinkier conversations on OLD😂

Even worse, I thought they were only still at the messaging stage!
Sorry OP, that's my fault for not reading your opening post properly.

I would imagine you on top would be the best position for piv. However, if he really is micro would it be more satisfying for both of you to concentrate on oral, fingers and/or toys? As long as he is willing to listen and learn from you I don’t see any reason why you can’t both enjoy a fulfilling sex life together.

I found small condoms:

https://www.myonecondoms.com/pages/smaller-condom-sizes

thanks all for your thoughts and suggestions for the practicalities

Did he say how small is very small?

Practically, I can recommend putting a pillow under your bum (hence changing the angle) and also doggy position. Both made a difference to me when with a smaller guy.
Although neither of us has ever talked about his size, he must obviously be aware.

Also, he was extremely good with his hands and mouth, he had learned his way round a woman’s body and really enjoyed giving pleasure. I think if your guy is so self conscious about it that he’s mentioned it in advance there’s a good chance he will make every effort to compensate too?

I’m glad it hasn’t put you off seeing him, hope you have fun

that's what I'm hoping SexEd, assuming we get that far

By the sounds of it been dumped in last for having a small cock
doesn’t want to waste time if it would be a deal breaker

Have you slept with him yet? If not go into it with an open mind. I have fond memories of a FWB I had almost 20 years ago with a small penis. I only came during PIV with him 3 times but oh christ I'll never forget how amazing it felt.

He was also pretty good at oral. God I wish I could come like that again

@NoKnit How small was the FWB?

I can't decide if I'm in awe of the guys transparency, yes clearly had issues with past relationships if he's mentioned, or feel distinctly sorry for him that he's gone and mentioned prior to any carnal activities commencing. I'd expect that he'll want to try and compensate sexually, most guys would. He's brave to mention.

I met my bf (8 months) on tinder. We spent the weekend together after 4 dates - he was genuinely happy to not shag if I felt it too soon - and told me as we were undressing that he is very small. Which he is.

He is now my number one sexual partner! (And I've had a lot). Mouth, hands, everything. I have never been wetter: He makes me cum 5 or 6 times before PIV and that really turns him on. Me on top is best for hitting the right spot, and I can literally just rock back and forth to give him enough stimulation to cum and by then I am so sensitive that I'll have a huge orgasm too.
I also have a small mouth so BJs are often painful. Not with this guy! It's actually a pleasure 🤣

I say kudos to the OP's guy for being so honest, but definitely quiz him about his abilities and willingness to use alternative techniques for your pleasure!

I would have been happy to have sex with him, if he hadn't also been an entitled arsehole who cancelled on me twice, then expected me to drop everything when he was "unexpectedly" free. So no idea about the actual size, or his abilities otherwise!

@NeedAnAnonNameForThis I'm sorry to hear that you have been messed about. If only the man knew how invested we all are, he might have turned up! Do you think nerves got the better of him maybe?

nah, he just wanted me as a back-up option if his first choice(s) fell through. Blocked and deleted now though, so I'll never know if the sex was any good.

Thanks all for your support though