I have Knee pain DH can only orgasm in one position

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DH can only reliably cum in cowgirl me facing him or he takes forever. He says he doesn't like missionary or spoons he can't get the speed. I have knee pain at the moment and I'm getting fed up. We tried reverse cowgirl and I was getting there but he said he didn't like the way i was doing it. it starts to take forever and i get sore. I had to get on top again which hurt my knee . Our sex life is very stale and I'm avoiding sex because I'm sick of having to go on my knee for him to finish.

Roll out the rabbit and mix it up a bit whilst you are doing the do?

Can't you stretch out your legs on top of his? Sorry, probably not explaining it well. But it would mean no pressure on your knee.
More than this though, your needs should come first at the moment. You shouldn't feel under pressure to have sex in a way that's causing you pain!

It doesn't sound like your DH is being terribly considerate towards you and your discomfort. And I don't understand why he "can't get the speed" in missionary position. I appreciate that we are all different physically but from a basic physical perspective this is a position where we chaps get one of the best opportunities for movement, speed, etc. So I'm a bit mystified.

But he certainly needs to take responsibility to work on ways which enable you to be more comfortable during sex. It's sounds as you are doing all the work to accommodate his needs rather than the other way around.

Are you able to challenge him a bit and speak to him about that? Is your knee issue a long term thing? If so the situation is going to need a long term solution and he needs to appreciate that.

"Challengibg him" will likely build conflict and resentment - the absolute opposite of what you want with sex. Be curious, encourage, and problem-solve together.

Doggy is good for speed if your knees will take it. Or you don't have to limit yourself to PIV while your knee heels and mutual masturbation and oral give different kinds of emotional connection (and he can still lie back and think if England).

He can only reliably cum in cowgirl position, but I bet you won’t be able to cum at all because of the pain. If this is going to be a short term rehab then I’d just focus on oral or hand jobs (if I felt up to it!)

I have an old injury which is never going to go away and I’ve invested in some Liberator wedges and one of these stools below, which really help me during a flare up. It isn’t my knee but I think these may help you too. It was all quite expensive, though worth it for a chronic condition.