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Innies or Outties? (men welcome to post)

54 replies

SugarFlowing · 01/05/2023 14:23

I have never truly been 100% confident about my labia and although I've never received any complaints, I have never received specific compliments either.

I'm coming out of a somewhat long self imposed celibacy period and I feel kinda like a virgin again but the main reason for my nervousness is my labia.

What can I do to make it a non issue and what have you done to feel more confident with yours if you have been worried in the past?

OP posts:
Dizzyfizzylizzyy · 05/05/2023 12:47

AnneKipankitoo · 05/05/2023 12:39

I think it's a lovely thing that people have friends on the boards. Not just on the sex boards.

Anatomically everyone has a different shape so just love the shape you are.I am sure your new partner will.

Yes it’s great women shut down other women to protect men, certainly something worth celebrating.

AnneKipankitoo · 05/05/2023 12:59

You can use the correct terminology if you wish @Dizzyfizzylizzyy . You did.
You expressed dislike at someone else's. He apologised.
He did not use a derogatory term. That would not have been nice. If he had done I am sure @Mermaidparades would not have responded in the way that she did.
Have a lovely Bonk Holiday Weekend, everyone !😀

Dizzyfizzylizzyy · 05/05/2023 13:06

AnneKipankitoo · 05/05/2023 12:59

You can use the correct terminology if you wish @Dizzyfizzylizzyy . You did.
You expressed dislike at someone else's. He apologised.
He did not use a derogatory term. That would not have been nice. If he had done I am sure @Mermaidparades would not have responded in the way that she did.
Have a lovely Bonk Holiday Weekend, everyone !😀

He didn’t apologise, he said no offence meant, it’s up to him if he wishes to use that terminology and it’s up to me to share my right to mention not using correct terminology.@Mermaidparades didn’t need to comment, nor did you.

Mermaidparades · 05/05/2023 13:13

@Dizzyfizzylizzyy I don’t shut down anyone, did you read my first post on this thread? My point is that if you’re going to have a go at @Rieslinger for his terminology then you’ll also need to do the same with the OP for not referring to hypertrophy of the labia minora. And that would be OTT as I’m sure most people would be able to deduce which body part is being referred to, in both cases.

user1498572889 · 05/05/2023 13:14

I am crying at the way all of the men don't care what it looks like just as long as they get to see it. 😂

Mermaidparades · 05/05/2023 13:15

@AnneKipankitoo wishing you a Happy Bonk Holiday too 😘😁

Dizzyfizzylizzyy · 05/05/2023 13:18

Mermaidparades · 05/05/2023 13:13

@Dizzyfizzylizzyy I don’t shut down anyone, did you read my first post on this thread? My point is that if you’re going to have a go at @Rieslinger for his terminology then you’ll also need to do the same with the OP for not referring to hypertrophy of the labia minora. And that would be OTT as I’m sure most people would be able to deduce which body part is being referred to, in both cases.

I wasn’t having a go at your mate 😂 I respectfully said to please use correct terminology. You didn’t need to comment. Yes you did try and shut me down. I know you like to impress the men but you really don’t do women any justice with your hyper-vigilance on the threads.

AnneKipankitoo · 05/05/2023 13:22

Dizzyfizzylizzyy · 05/05/2023 12:47

Yes it’s great women shut down other women to protect men, certainly something worth celebrating.

I am not shutting down anyone, man or woman . I am trying to be supportive.
I am sorry my comprehensive reading skills do not meet high standards.

Mermaidparades · 05/05/2023 13:23

@Dizzyfizzylizzyy please don’t try to tell me my intentions! Also, I have no desire to ‘please the men’ . I think everyone should be treated equally

Dizzyfizzylizzyy · 05/05/2023 13:32

AnneKipankitoo · 05/05/2023 13:22

I am not shutting down anyone, man or woman . I am trying to be supportive.
I am sorry my comprehensive reading skills do not meet high standards.

A woman coming on and pulling me up on correcting a man, is shutting a woman down.
Apology accepted.

Dizzyfizzylizzyy · 05/05/2023 13:34

Mermaidparades · 05/05/2023 13:23

@Dizzyfizzylizzyy please don’t try to tell me my intentions! Also, I have no desire to ‘please the men’ . I think everyone should be treated equally

I am just pointing out the obvious. If everyone should be treated as equal, then allow me to voice my view to another poster without poking your nose in.

Mermaidparades · 05/05/2023 13:40

@Dizzyfizzylizzyy I shall withdraw my nose 💗

Estherpologist · 05/05/2023 17:13

It never ceases to amuse and sadden me how discussions like this descend into acrimony.
#acuntbyanyothername 🤣😪

OhAMilkshake · 05/05/2023 17:51

Dizzyfizzylizzyy · 05/05/2023 12:47

Yes it’s great women shut down other women to protect men, certainly something worth celebrating.

Says the person telling someone what words he's allowed to use to describe a woman's vulva. Or is it only men that are allowed to be shut down on here.
Anyone is free to call it what like they ffs! Get over yourself.

I like to call in my MINGE 😁

everywhichway · 05/05/2023 18:06

OhAMilkshake · 05/05/2023 17:51

Says the person telling someone what words he's allowed to use to describe a woman's vulva. Or is it only men that are allowed to be shut down on here.
Anyone is free to call it what like they ffs! Get over yourself.

I like to call in my MINGE 😁

Has that Minge of yours been staying out late again then?

AnneKipankitoo · 05/05/2023 18:27

There is a lovely cheese from Tain called Minger. It’s very similar to Reblochon if anyone is interested.

everywhichway · 05/05/2023 18:44

I think I know that one Anne. They do a very nice Todger there too, I believe.

OhAMilkshake · 05/05/2023 18:52

Call it my minge! 🙈 ffs!

Choconut · 05/05/2023 18:59

I see the language police are out in force, really people can call their/their partners bits whatever they like they don't need telling they're doing it wrong, we use fufu all the time. Oh yeah and I also use 'bits'.

I never knew there were such things as innies and outies until i read about it on here once. I think I have an innie but I don't have anything to compare it with!

OhAMilkshake · 05/05/2023 19:26

Oh darling please can we have sexual intercourse tonight? I would be absolutely delighted if you could insert your penis through my protruding labia and into my vagina then move it in and out until you secrete semen.

Is that better?

Mermaidparades · 05/05/2023 19:31

@OhAMilkshake i love it when you talk dirty 🤣

AnneKipankitoo · 05/05/2023 19:49

Can you do that in Klingon @OhAMilkshake ?

AnneKipankitoo · 05/05/2023 19:52

😂@everywhichway

Dizzyfizzylizzyy · 05/05/2023 22:12

OhAMilkshake · 05/05/2023 19:26

Oh darling please can we have sexual intercourse tonight? I would be absolutely delighted if you could insert your penis through my protruding labia and into my vagina then move it in and out until you secrete semen.

Is that better?

Sexy chat isn’t the same as discussing a woman’s concerns about her labia. Equally, if my DP asked to put his willy into my fufu he’d be kicked out of bed sharpish. I’ve only ever heard a child use the word fufu, never an adult.

Telephoneman · 05/05/2023 22:49

No difference, they both lovely to suck and lick.

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