I’ve never orgasmed from oral sex

[OralQuest]

I have never reached orgasm from oral sex but I would love to. I don’t know if it’s because it’s not the right stimulation for me, although I enjoy it. In the past I have felt a bit self-conscious about receiving oral but I feel more relaxed and confident now and it’s still not happened.

I wouldn't worry about it if you're having satisfying orgasms in other ways. People like and dislike different things. It could be you've never had " good" oral or it could just be that you know what type of stimulation you like and that's not it. I rarely come from oral, in fact there's something I actually dislike about it and I'm not sure what it is. I am very sensitive down there and it's overwhelming, I usually just let my husband do it to me because he enjoys doing it. Sometimes I will orgasm from it but more often than not I will have to get him to stop and make me orgasm either through his fingers or penetrative sex.

Op,
Primary suggestion is lots and lots of practice. Also, technique both for you and your partner, is crucial.

OP, how long is your partner spending on you? Is your partner finding the exact spot? It's more like a good slowly poured cup of coffee, rather than an instant. Communicate with your partner at the time.

Which other ways (if any), do you climax?

@StarlightLady He normally spends about 15 minutes giving me oral, he often moves off the spot or changes the pressure though and I do often have to re-direct. Climax is normally through fingers but even with this he can’t always make me orgasm as again he changes the pressure and area. I’d just love to be able to experience an orgasm via oral sex. Maybe we need to keep persisting.

OP, it sounds as if, the changes he causes are the problem. I have some other thoughts but here is only so much I want to add on a public forum, but feel free to drop me a PM.

Your partner has to be willing to learn here, and want to do It. The female anatomy is incredibly complex, every woman is different, so It's not a straightforward thing for a guy to accomplish. Discover what works for you, gentle clit pressure, sucking the clit, gentle thumb pressure, up and down or side to side, work out how and in what ways he has to penetrate you with his fingers to achieve the best results, he'll need to take time to locate your G Spot, ultimately.

My partner loved it but it dud nothing for me. Thought it was erotic looking down st him but that's it. Onli had 2 sexual relationships though. Was talking to a mate who said wasnt fussed either. We are all different.