My libido has finally returned after 2 years!

[honeybeeandme]

I've had major issues with my libido for quite some time and the only thing that has made it return is ready erotic novels! Never thought I'd see the day again, now I can't get enough! I'm now horny all the time and can't stop thinking about sex. Even pleasing myself isn't improving the current situation, can anyone recommend something?

Bromide in your tea.

That’s such wonderful news! I love listening to erotic novels on Audible while I’m out walking or cleaning the house. Jacob Morgan/ Zachary Webber is the most amazing narrator, he has such a sexy voice!

Have you currently got a partner? Have you tried any sex toys?

Go on a toy buying binge, incredible stuff available out there.

can I ask how old you are? need hope

I recommend listening to some erotic stories ( literotica and lush have some great ones!) Do you gave a partner/husband? Get him on the case ASAP! Otherwise toys/ stories until it calms a bit?

I've come across this with a few people over the years - often after recovery from a period of illness or depression. Once all these thoughts and feelings come back in glorious technicolour it can be very full-on and almost overwhelming.

Enjoy it while it lasts - there are endless possibilities with toys, reading matter and partners too, if there's somebody nice available. Congratulations.

I'm reminded of the old joke
'Do you entertain impure thoughts?'
'No, they entertain me.'

@AlexaAdventuress yes i agree it can be very overwhelming. Mine has arrived post menopause and frankly is taking a lot of head space and time right now.

@Runaround50 Time well spent, if you ask me!

So how are you dealing with that? More time in bed with partner? Trips to the gym?

@Tallguy101 well the problem is, myself and partner are not in sync any longer unfortunately.

My libido is at rocket level, but his is not. When I was approaching menopause and during a time when I was ill with breast cancer, his was high and I ( being bald and breast less on one side, was a major turn off for me!)

We are at loggerheads with it all now.

Firstly, May I wish you a continued recovery. 3 ex partners of mine have suffered from Cancer, 2 of them paying the ultimate price although I had split with them before diagnosis.

This is a difficult situation, I can only suggest that you try talking it through further and maybe try something that may appeal to him. Meantime some toys etc may help you along and reduce your frustration?