MEN: Breast size

[mynewnameisfreckle]

Very concerned lady here.
I am on the lesser than average side and I have always been worried that my breasts are too small.

From experience men like bigger and I get awfully shy around my new partner. Should I be concerned?

Do you really want a man that values women for their tits? Grim. Be confident, if he doesn't like you the way you are then he's not for you.

No, not at all! He'll not care. I'd not worry your head about that. He'd not be dating you otherwise, and there's more than large breasts to keep the fires burning... He likes "you", and the size of your tits shouldn't come into the equation. A 2-way-street, It would be like you judging him for the size of his tackle, only silly because he can see that you've apparently not got massive breasts already. He's obviously not concerned, nor really should he be!

Plenty of men, my husband included, actively like smaller breasts/ dislike large ones.
I mentioned this before on mumsnet and got told my husband was lying to me!
A quick Google or look on reddit shows he is not alone.

Well obviously some men will prefer larger breasts, but actually a smaller handful is lovely too! Extremely sexy, actually! Likewise, some women really need that large cock to do the trick, but others won't mind. It's ultimately subjective, as is dating in general. There's more to It than just biology, the OPS partner likes her personality, or at least, that's my suspicion!

Fret not!

There are plenty of men out there who care little about body shape or relative sizes of different parts.

I've dated very petite women, short curvy women, big women, tall (6"+ taller than me) pear-shaped women, the main thing in common was that I found the all round package attractive - mind, at least as much as body.

I don't know why people are comparing breast size with penis size.
Breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic. A better comparison for a man (if we must make one) is facial and chest hair, or upper body muscular build.
A comparison for a small penis would I suppose be a large vagina, which sometimes get referenced on here.

@Anxiodogo , fair point, actually.

I prefer smaller breasts actually. There are plenty of partners who will appreciate your form, I'm sure you look great so have the confidence to be comfortable with you body.

Absolutely nothing to worry about. It's the woman we like, not how big her boobs are. Personally I much prefer smaller well proportioned boobs but really size is not important. Its the personality that counts.

No, Makes no difference, if someone likes you - they like you no matter what

Thing is, I am familiar with his ex partner and she had really big big fake breasts. Makes me feel inferior. I know it's silly, but it still bothers me.

Well, that makes It a bit more understandable, but he's ditched the fake and picked you, so you're on to a winner!

he has chosen you over her & the fake breasts.

I probably prefer smaller, in my experience the larger the breasts the less sensitive the nipples are.

@mynewnameisfreckle if it bothers you then it isn’t silly! Your partner has had the opportunity to look for another woman with big boobs but has chosen you, maybe the size isn’t important to him? Maybe he is more attracted to a certain kind of legs, butt, whatever! Or just sparkling personality!! Try not to let your feelings make you shy though 💗 lots of folks have body hang ups, maybe he has too.

Don't not be worried. The media has over sold large breasts over the last 60 years but, in reality, each man is different in what they prefer.

Plus you get the added bonus of smaller breasts staying up/pert longer than larger breasts.

@Oldtadger exactly! Especially with summer coming up I get so envious of girls who can wear strappy tops and dresses without a bra. They don’t look so great with my scaffolding like bra 😢 the media doesn’t shine a light on that aspect of having larger boobs. Never mind trying to jog!!

It doesn’t matter what men think. What you think is all that matters. Not all men like bigger breasts, there’s lots of perks (pun intended) to having smaller breasts.

IMHO there is nothing less sexy than big fake breasts. You shouldn't feel inferior to his ex, he has chosen to be with you and maybe didn't really like her unnatural boobs.

There are 2 Threads about contrasts of sizes of our bits. The other one is about cock size.

Too much overthinking IMO. Just get on with being together!!!
A third thread is more thought provoking. It highlights the contrast within a new couple a biscuit loving overweight woman and a man who is fit and active.
The man fancies her. That's it.

The reality is that the only real feature any of us have that we can hope to keep the same is the way it feels to spend time with us. Whilst physical features certainly have a part to play at first glance, its the way it feels to be with someone that provides the real attraction.

If he is already a new partner, you are way past the first glance stage and he will either know exactly, or if not have a very good idea of the size and shape of your body.

It's also a dangerous game asking what people prefer as if they were choosing a Subway sandwich - it's just not the way the world of actual human beings works.

Bloke here for reference..

Erm.. nope, no..definitely not.

In my experience the size doesn't matter. It how responsive they are to my touch that really matters to me as man.

A woman with smaller breasts who moans naturally in pleasure when I fondle them is way sexier than a woman with large breasts who is silent and looks bored.

DW's breasts are on the smaller side. I think they are gorgeous and utterly sexy. Why? Because they are part of her. If she happened to have had big boobs I'd probably have thought they were gorgeous too. Why? Again because they would be part of her.

I guess what I'm saying is that (for me at least and probably for a million other men) it's not the size of the breasts that matter it's the woman attached to them. That's why he wants to be with you.

All the best to both!