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Tiff1247 · 19/02/2023 08:44

the guy I am in a relationship with wants to be with me and move into my house but has me blocked on social media and can’t give a reason as to why he won’t unblock me

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tonystarksrighthand · 19/02/2023 08:49

Do NOT let him move into your house

Undermyumberellaellaella · 19/02/2023 08:50

Well obviously don't let him move in.

Aldisfinest · 19/02/2023 08:51

Well why do you need a reason ? He's blocked you, that tells you a thousand words. Horrible way to do it but now you know. I bet there's another woman involved though

icelollycraving · 19/02/2023 08:52

Absolutely do not let him move in!

Scottishknitter · 19/02/2023 08:53

Why does he want to move in? Do you want him to move in? Have you met his family? Do you know he’s safe/legit?

even if all the answers are above board I’d still sack him off! There’s always a reason and he’s hiding something.

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Tiff1247 · 19/02/2023 08:59

We have a son together who is now 5. We only got back together 6 month ago but he won’t unblock me or add me on social media. But says he wants to live with me and be with us at home doesn’t make sense unsure what he could be hiding

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tonystarksrighthand · 19/02/2023 09:01

You're unsure what he is hiding?

Errrrr his life!?

Pseudonamed · 19/02/2023 09:03

He is hiding you from social media for a reason. DO NOT let him in to your home.

Dotcheck · 19/02/2023 09:03

Of course you know what he could be hiding. There’s someone else on the back burner and he wants to protect both options.

Or he’s told you a bunch of guff on what he was up to when you were apart and social media would reveal it

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Tiff1247 · 19/02/2023 09:09

Yesterday I blocked his messages and told him until social media is sorted I do not want to speak to him. still blocked and still haven’t spoke

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BreviloquentBastard · 19/02/2023 09:19

Date an adult, adults don't use social media and the block button as weapons against each other. This is highschool bollocks.

toomuchlaundry · 19/02/2023 09:21

How much was he in your life when you first had your son?

Aldisfinest · 19/02/2023 11:54

Well that says if all OP. He probably has a secret girlfriend on social media.

Iguanainanigloo · 19/02/2023 11:58

He could be hiding a million of different things, but this is not the sort of situation you want your son stuck in the middle of. He doesn't need to move in with you, but once he has, your son will then be witness to any of the future shit and arguments that are certain to arise. I'd take a guess, at secret girlfriend, maybe even secret second child/pregnancy. There's either something he doesn't want you to see, or something he doesn't want someone else to see. For your safety and your child's, don't let him move in with you. Ever.

Landndialamrhf · 19/02/2023 12:00

You have a five year old child together and you’re playing silly games blocking each other and can’t trust each other.

you say he wants to move in with you but what do you want?

this doesn’t sound like the healthy happy relationship your son deserves to see modelled to him

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Tiff1247 · 19/02/2023 12:49

We was actually happy no arguments no blocking each other games as he’s the only one doing the blocking and refusing to unblock but apart from that we was happy he won’t be moving in, it’s the fact he says he wants to, I can’t be with someone who doesn’t want me on social media

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Surplus2requirements · 19/02/2023 13:34

Whatever it is there's obviously something that he feels would threaten your relationship.

That's all you need to know really

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Tiff1247 · 19/02/2023 14:03

100% agree

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Oldtadger · 19/02/2023 17:14

Tread carefully. He sounds very controlling.

GlassBunion · 19/02/2023 17:42

So.. he blocked you then you blocked him? And you have a child with him and you want to live together?

Please have some self respect.

This is not going to work and you know that.

Jeez.

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