Noisy sex

[Cazza49]

So, it was Valentines Day last night and my partner visited my flat. A very nice evening was had. My bedroom is by a quiet road, I always make sure the windows and curtains are closed very well. I can be a little vocal during sex. Someone has put a polite notice through my door to “keep the noise” down when I am with my partner as “god knows what my neighbours must think”. Am I wrong in just thinking this person should have ignored me!! I was not flaunting anything and now feel a little ashamed. He only visits mine about once a fortnight so not like it’s all the time. I will try and keep it down, but get carried away at times!! I feel a bit shamed to be honest.

Make as much noise as you like . F### em if they don’t like it . Leave them a note saying you will shagging tonight so turn your tv’s or music up if don’t want to hear us. Lol 😂

The louder the better IMHO. You go girl!

I'm guessing it's happens a lot more than once to get a note about it. No one want to hear someone shagging when you're watching the repair shop op.

@Cazza49 if I were your bf and knew about the note I would be trying my hardest from now to make you scream more, it would turn me on even more ☺️

I had this once living in a flat. I was young and I did feel a sense of shame.

Make as much noise as you like. The note is a bit out of order to be honest - you do what your like in your own home. I agree with an earlier poster, tell your partner and he will probably view it as challenge to get you to make even more noise.

It’s interesting that so many people are of the “your home do what you like” train of thought. Yet music, having friends round, the noise of hot tubs and the likes are always slated on here as antisocial and people should have consideration for their neighbours.

You must be really loud for someone walking by or a neighbour, with your windows shut, to still be able to hear you. Sorry, but that's just ridiculous.

It's uncomfortable being forced to listen to it. If it's peoples own home and they can do what they like which of course they can, but you must remember your neighbours are also entitled to a peaceful sleep in their own home without listening to you shrieking and headboard hitting the joint wall in the early hours. I would be mortified if I had a note posted through my letterbox but then again I have shame and self awareness!

To be fair I can understand neighbours getting a bit ticked off with the racket but someone walking by? That's a joke surely? How did you find that out? You walk your dog, hear couples in the throes of sex and scurry by I would have thought..not pop home write a note and scuttle back in the dead of night to shove your complaint through the letterbox.

I'd be mortified if I thought people could hear me and I'd want to change that for my own sake tbh.

Oh gosh, I remember hearing our neighbours having loud sex as a child and feeling terrified because I thought he was hitting her. My mum went round and gave them a piece of her mind. Please get sound proofing in your walls OP. No one wants to hear that shit.

Oh god our neighbours used to be really loud. My son used to complain about it when he was trying to do GCSE revision. And we have thick walls (old house) & son was at other end of the house with no shared walls. It was ridiculously loud. They seem to have toned it down a bit now thank god.

How do you know it was no one in your block?

It's unlikely to be a polite informative note from a passer-by and more likely to be a fucked off neighbour.

I've heard my neighbours having sex. Her screaming and the bed slamming against the wall as their window was open as we came home one night. We laughed our heads off and we are detached so wouldn't have been an issue inside. If I was awoken and it was a regular thing I'd be thinking you're a performative arsehole with no respect.