Contract with FB's

[whattodo87]

Not sex related but ...

I’m posting for thoughts and experiences on how much contact you have with FB’s ?

I am a single lady on Fab, and in the past have allowed contact via WhatsApp messages.

Anyway I met a guy and gave him my number and then the random (day to day life) messages started so I asked to switch to another platform and he called my behaviour weird !

I’m aware that I’m not a priority to this guy
so the randomness of the messages, just to keep my interest, gets me quite annoyed.

We are not friends, I am not a priority, nor are they. If we’re both free then we can meet up. I don’t expect to be taken out or have presents bought for me - just the fun stuff.

I do have other ways to contact rather than using the site, and for me this is better as they aren’t mixed in with my friends and family, and therefore can be easily ignored if I’m busy but I will respond.

Now I don’t mind being weird, if that’s the consensus, but I’m a little confused as to why he would say this and has made it now impossible of us to meet again - even though the sex was awesome :-(

The title should say CONTACT :-)

I was thinking you were going to go all Sheldon like with a contract 🤣

Actually a contract wouldn't be a bad idea

Maybe he thought it was more FWB than FB? Maybe he want's more?

I'd say that, if you like him, and the sex was that good, it's worth a chat with him, and just repeat to him what you want?

We'd only met twice ! And although the sexual connection was great - we are very different people personality wise.

This became apparent in our WhatsApp messages (I'm very light hearted and jokey and he was very serious - one word responses, no banter etc)

And I did talk to him, on the phone (old fashioned gal) about the messaging and again he couldn't understand what the problem was 🤷‍♀️

Anyway - no going back with him now .. but I'm interested in how others communicate ?

I use Fab - I've only "moved" to WhatsApp with two contacts - one couple, and one lady. I don't message the lady regularly - hardly ever, in fact. The couple, I've become friends with.

I had the same issue, but genders reversed, met a woman on a site (not FAB) for an FB / FWB arrangement, I’m quite jokey and easy going, she was the opposite, we communicated via Telegraph, we had a couple of meetings, the sex was great, but the communication styles were so different it didn’t really work