He ate his own jiz and says women find it sexy

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So, I had been dating this guy, seen him a few times and Id gone to his house for a two day visit. Early days, not slept together yet. He was nice and I could tell he liked me. The visit started off really well, we had a lovely day and that evening we ended up becoming somewhat intimate for the first time in the bedroom. No penetration but some fairly thrilling other stuff. Anyway, we were having a nice little pre-clean-up snuggle, I had my head on his chest, and as I was slipping into a lovely warm semi blissful snooze I noticed things were a bit ‘messy’, some jiz sliding down his thigh, cool, sort it all out after a nice nap if he not noticed and doesn’t have a tissue.. But. Then. .. he very casually scooped it up with his finger and put it in his mouth. I stiffened, stomach kind of knotted. What had I just witnessed? My eyes must have been wide in horror. And then he did it again! Good god. I didn’t know what to think. I got out of bed and made us both a cup of tea. All notion of sleep was gone. Anyway I could hardly bear to look him in the eye after that but I remained self possess and I’m not sure he noticed. I made an excuse and left early. I couldn’t stop thinking about it, and how nauseous it had made me feel. I don’t have a problem with ingesting this substance myself under the right circumstances but this was something else.

I stopped all contact with him after this and he begged me to tell him what had happened. I couldn’t tell him literally for months because the words just couldn’t come out of my mouth, I was just so embarrassed.

Eventually we did talk about it. And he laughed his head off and says he does it all the time, it’s normal behaviour and the girls love it (though at the time we were exclusive).

My question to you lovely ladies is, is this as he says, normal behaviour??? Or would it freak you out too??

I think that many of those who post/comment here need to keep in mind that one man's meat can easily be another man's poison. What someone likes to do is their version of normal behaviour; it may not be yours, but neither party is right/wrong.

Ingesting his own ejaculate is this chap's own business. He states that some women find this sexy and quite a few here then make a point of doubting his statement. I have by no means carried out an exhaustive study, but my experience may support his findings. I have always adored French kissing a woman immediately after she has fellated me to orgasm, preferably before she has swallowed my ejaculate. I am happy to have my ejaculate in my mouth and to swallow it. The women who have been my partners in this scenario have universally told me that they found it extremely sexy.

It has always struck me as distinctly odd if I were to enjoy my female partner taking my cum in her mouth and perhaps swallowing it, but be revolted by the idea of having that same thing in my own mouth. If one can grasp that concept, then it is only a short step to a man noticing some of his cum on his thigh and scooping it into his mouth. If this chap has the balls to taste and eat his own cum, then good for him.

Okay so I guess it’s definitely not unheard of then and actually erotic for some but defo 🤢 for many too, so I’m relieved it’s not just me. I think it was a bit much for a very first exploratory encounter but because it’s so normal for him it didn’t cross his mind it might be a bit of an acquired taste, as it were

My other half feeds me my cum sometimes after a handjob if she's feeling that way inclined .

Have been known to swap cum by kissing after a blowjob too

One of my favourite things is cunnilingus after PIV ejaculation, so I wouldn't be freaked out. Bodily fluids will be ingested by both partners (hopefully!)

But if it wasn't to my liking, I would explain that it was a turn off (for me) and if it still continued, end the relationship.

I am sure he has enough cum to sample on his own time.

My partner actually loves telling me to lick her boobs clean after I ejaculate on them. Not the most pleasant for me but it certainly drives her wild and gives her a giggle

Two things come to mind (sorry for the pun):

Why do women who are happy to have their man's cum in their mouth, freak out when he does the same?

I haven't known a single woman who hasn't licked her fingers at some point (mainly for lube, sometimes for eroticism) whilst pleasuring herself, ingesting much the same bodily fluids as a man produces.

I think this thread is now bringing out people who are massively into sex. That's cool but I've not had a partner for a long time, I'm not interested in transient encounters, so not had chance to get really into the details with anyone. I'm coming (scuse the pun) at it with a sort of averageish / maybe slightly uptight approach. And this was my very first exploration with the man! It's great that you guys are slurping away with your partners but it sounds like you're in established relationships where you've discovered each other's idiosyncrasies and know what works. I was just trying to figure out if I was really out of touch and this sort of thing is a normal thing these days for an averageish person on a first encounter and if I was being weird for finding it so gross. It is arguable that it is no different to a female fiddling with herself downstairs and then putting fingers in her mouth, but for some reason (for me) it just is.

@Opp hey, I'm really sorry if I made you feel bad at all. I'm in a pretty new relationship after not having sex for a long time (recently separated from my husband) and we kind of made a decision to just try everything and luckily we're liking most of it 😁 But I really know what is like to feel a bit crap about sex, and I would never want to do that to anyone. I hope you meet someone lovely and have brilliant sex with the right person x

Not at all! I'm glad you've found someone to get into the zone with, I hope to too one day. And who knows maybe when this happens I'll be more amenable to this sort of thing (doubt it but you never know 🤣)

Big deal he ate his own cum.
I'm sure there are loads who do it and loads who get off on watching men do it.
Like has been said before lots of women do it when they go down on a bloke during and after.

I've never had a partner who did this and would find it extremely off-putting, especially in the way this man did.

I wouldn't shame a guy for it or anything, to each his own and all that, but neither am I going to be shamed for having my own likes and dislikes!

I don't think it's anything too alarming, just a bit uncommon but if you look out there, there are blokes that love eating their own jizz and even love coming over their face. I've accidentally given myself a facial having an intensive wank and while it's not something that turns me on, I know there are other guys that do it and it gets them off.

Hardly “sexy” but not that bizarre. Certainly no worse than picking your own nose and eating it. It’s just a (sanitary) fluid and won’t cause any harm. A lot of things taste worse. I mean there are people around here who give rimjobs and that tastes a lot worse.

You are not weird for finding it gross. I'd say normal.

Eurgh no way that would repulse me. I hate the taste of it myself and never swallow. Rarely have it in my mouth as it makes me gag!

One aspect that I find really healthy about the cum-eating chap is his ability to say right from the start what his kinks/fetishes are. We can like/dislike anything, as we are all individuals entitled to our own opinions, but how would you feel if you were to start seeing a person, have vanilla sex with them a few times, like them, start to develop a real connection with them, begin to make emotional investments in the relationship, and then have them say that they have various kinks and in fact perhaps vanilla sex does not float their boat? All the time they were wanting to tie you up, beat you, be beaten and humiliated by you, or whatever. I'd feel disappointed at their lack of frankness, maybe even deceived.

I admire that he puts his kink cards on the table right from the start, so that if you don't like aspects of his sexuality you can simply choose not to get involved.

The use of a comma would improve this post.

I've only experienced this as part of a submissive thing where the man wanted me to force him to drink his own cum. Incredibly off-putting for me.

The thing is he didn't present this as a kink but as a 'completely normal' thing that 'all women' find really sexy. It's a porn driven kink, not particularly normal. With something like that I'd always talk about it first to see if it turned the person on before actually doing it (in a dirty talk kind of way) to avoid giving that person a horrible experience.

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 to eating bogies!!! Actually this guy will not believe me that I’ve NEVER done this!! He thinks that’s entirely normal and okay too. Thank Christ I’ve never witnessed him doing this!! I’m not sure which makes me feel poorlier, blokes eating jiz or anyone eating bogies 🤮🤮. I’ve never even contemplated doing a rimjob, good grief. I’m not sure I’d survive!

He didn’t indicate that this was going to happen, he just did it as a matter of course after nice but unremarkable intimate fumbling. He said afterwards he thinks it’s normal/sexy and also he has stated he’s not particularly kinky. (I’m not averse to the possibility of exploring this sort of realm if I ever find a partner, as long as I can specify exclusionary criteria, probably such as a ban on the guy eating his own bodily excretions)

Oh crikey, that sounds a bit much if you weren’t primed. I agree a bit of chat first to figure out dynamics and preferences etc would be pragmatic. And quite exciting I imagine. Anyway I don’t think I’ll ever get chance to find out, I never feel attracted to anyone. I’ll probably just get a couple of cats