Into different things from new partner

[mumzy1111]

Little background story I have been seeing this guy for around 5 months now, in the beginning sex was great but we're into completely different things, I'm more into bdsm which I know isn't everyone's cup of tea and he's into more normal sex with a little hair pulling, and a few other things, he does think a lot of what I like is disrespectful and I totally understand that.
He always thinks being submissive makes me a pillow princess😂
When I ask what he likes he unsure and tells me it takes time but I don't know if it's worth waiting as he has always said that, I also think sex is an important part in any relationship so unsure if I should wait it out and only thing wrong is the sex other than that he is a great guy.
Has anyone been in a similar situation?

If your needs aren't being met and fulfilled and he's unwilling or uncomfortable meeting them then it's decision time and only you know how important these things are to you.

he does think a lot of what I like is disrespectful and I totally understand that.

If he doesn’t like the things you like ( which is completely his choice), then I wouldn’t bother really.

Perhaps he'd like to be dominated a bit, in a very light vanilla way, just younstading over him, taking control etc. When you are sub it can appear like you aren't doing much, so being switch might get both your needs met.....

You’re not sexually compatible.
only you can decide if thats a deal breaker

Sex is an important part of any relationship, but maybe you can get him to creep out of his comfort zone, gradually. As a bloke, It can feel degrading and a little odd to engage in heavy BDSM with someone you love, and It can take time to get used to the nature of It with her, even though you already know she's receptive to It, and enjoys. Hope It works out for you, and if not, hit me up!