My libido has died

[Pecanpie12]

My libido has been incredibly low for the past two years. Been with my partner 4 years. The first year we were together it was amazing. But ever since then, it almost makes me feel sick and I simply do not want it. When I was younger, I was a rampant rabbit and loved having sex with my boyfriends and was quite exotic in the bedroom. Im now 26 and I feel like my vagina has shrivelled up inside of me and I'm no where near the menopausal age.
I know I want sex, but just not with my partner. Any advice?

The most telling phrase is 'I simply do not want it'.

It may feel like a libido issue, but it's clearly a deeper relationship issue. Because of that, the answer isn't sexual (try to spice things up in the bedroom, have an affair, open relationship or whatever).

It's to ask big questions about whether you want to be in a relationship with him at all. He's making you feel sick, and you haven't wanted to be intimate with him in ages, so the relationship is clearly not working.

Sounds as if you need to end the relationship, or (if you think it may be salvageable) have counselling together and a brutally honest conversation.

'I know I want sex, but just not with my partner.'

Agree with pp it isn't your libido it is your partner. You aren't sexually attracted to him anymore so time to end it and move on. At 26 these things should be trouble free! <barring previous abuse or medical issues obviously>

You know you want sex, but not with your partner.

THIS!!

Do not continue in a relationship with this person when you feel like this. I’m speaking from experience and I’m a lot older than you (50).

Sounds like you need to split up with your partner and move on.