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How not to blurt out “I love you”

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Hopelesslove · 01/12/2022 20:25

During sex.
I had a wonderful night with a man last week.
We had the most amazing sex and over the course of the evening and night I orgasmed 5 times. There was obviously a huge rush of hormones and endorphins with it and I found myself really wanting to shout out “I love you!”.

The thing is that I don’t. It’s early days and we haven’t even had a conversation about the relationship yet! I really like him but I’m definitely not ready to say I love him…. I was all caught up in the moment! I’m just paranoid and don’t want to blurt it out. I’m meeting him this weekend and no doubt there will be plenty of sex again.

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Yetanothernamechangeagain · 01/12/2022 20:39

I wouldn’t worry about it too much, just have a phrase ready to make a joke of it just in case you do blurt it out.

”oops sorry, that was just my fanny talking” or similar.

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serenaisaknobhead · 01/12/2022 20:44

Could you switch it for 'I love that!' ?

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TitInATrance · 01/12/2022 22:28

Have managed to switch to a heartfelt “I love sex”

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FleshLiabilities · 02/12/2022 10:01

Ball gag?

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Hopelesslove · 02/12/2022 11:14

What??!

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XVII · 02/12/2022 11:43

How about god i love fucking you!

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Rieslinger · 02/12/2022 12:50

Ballgag...seriously nearly lost my mouthful of tea over that...v funny!!

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WithTheirDogAfterTheWar · 24/12/2022 15:39

I’m in

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WithTheirDogAfterTheWar · 24/12/2022 15:45

WithTheirDogAfterTheWar · 24/12/2022 15:39

I’m in

a similar situation, and we’ve been making a bit of a joke of it - “I’m having strong biochemically-induced feelings towards you” and so on.

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Swimawayyy · 25/12/2022 17:58

WithTheirDogAfterTheWar · 24/12/2022 15:45

a similar situation, and we’ve been making a bit of a joke of it - “I’m having strong biochemically-induced feelings towards you” and so on.

😂
I love this… I might try that line

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KinkyMom · 04/01/2023 23:48

Yetanothernamechangeagain · 01/12/2022 20:39

I wouldn’t worry about it too much, just have a phrase ready to make a joke of it just in case you do blurt it out.

”oops sorry, that was just my fanny talking” or similar.

I’m not convinced that it’s something you can just shake off with a joke without completely destroying their confidence and self esteem…

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NoDatingForOldMen · 05/01/2023 07:32

serenaisaknobhead · 01/12/2022 20:44

Could you switch it for 'I love that!' ?

I think this ^^ would go down well with a lot of men

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Undecidedandtorn · 08/01/2023 10:19

Id go with "I love you doing (then whatever he is doing at the time)"

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