Dirty talk every time

[Underthetable1]

Recently every single time we have sex my partner either does dirty talk or asks me to and 1) I have no idea what to say and 2) I hate it, it’s actually a turn off for me

I feel really awkward and I’ve not said anything for so long now I feel like I can’t tell him I actually don’t like it

also the frequency he asks for it / does it makes me feel like he can’t have sex without it and I’m not enough, he needs to fantasise to get off

I know I should just talk to him so I guess my question is more about would you feel weird about how often they want dirty talk? It feels like he can’t have sex without it and it’s making me insecure

You have to talk about this, there is no other way. Just tell the truth and ask him why.

What else turns him on? (It's a rhetorical question!!!) Rather that telling him he can't have what he wants, can you do something he does like so he doesn't notice hes not getting it?

At least you've tried it. If you don't like then don't do it. Just explain how u feel to him. My bf is the same. He loves it too. I just talk to him about other woman sharing him etc and he does the same about me with 2 guys as he knows it's a fantasy of mine . Its gets us both off. Doesn't mean we need that to get off, it's just abit of fun. I'm sure your dp feels the same...probably nothing to feel insecure about.