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Never been able to have penetrative sex and it has affected all my relationships

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FeelingGuilty151 · 29/10/2022 19:30

Would it be weird to book a GP appointment for this reason? No matter who I have slept with, i have never been able to have anything bigger than a small finger inside of me. My vagina is really small and even when I’m relaxed I haven’t been able to insert anything

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B1rd · 29/10/2022 19:45

There are many reasons that could be the cause for this and its ultimately affecting your life so it certainly wouldn't be weird to book a GP appointment about it. I would ask for a female as you may feel more comfortable as I imagine the doctor will wish to examine you.

xpc316e · 29/10/2022 20:40

You absolutely must see a GP about this. We all deserve a satisfying sex life and there may be a very simple solution to the issues you experience. Please make an appointment on Monday morning and be assured that the doctor you see will treat your problem as not weird in the least.

Best wishes for a successful outcome.

PermanentTemporary · 29/10/2022 22:26

I really hope you do book an appointment. Best wishes.

Whatliesbeneath707 · 30/10/2022 06:24

GPs are so used to conversations like this, so please don't be afraid to book an appointment & discuss it. Ask to see a female GP if that helps. Dr's tend to approach this in a very matter of fact way & it's OK for you to do the same. Just explain it as you have on here. There are Physiotherapists who specialise in pelvic health & the GP might refer you to one. Good luck OP, I hope you get this sorted.

StarlightLady · 30/10/2022 06:40

OP, life owes you more than this. Please see a doctor and then come back and let us know how you got on.

l have some thoughts, but l am no medic and l think it better if you have professional comments first. 🌷

whoknew123 · 30/10/2022 10:19

Sorry to ask this OP but have you ever had a smear?

cookiecreammmpie · 30/10/2022 13:45

It sounds like it could be a psychological issue. A vagina can stretch to pass a baby so I think it's unlikely it's that you're too small to fit a penis. But I agree with comments up the thread about visiting your GP to investigate this.
I used to have a bit of difficulty when I first started having sex as I predicted pain. I am quite a small person, I have the child's size xray in the dentist and when I had my first baby which ended up as an emergency c section I was told I could never give birth to a baby weighing over 5 pounds due to my small pelvis. And I've had comments from men that I'm tight, but I don't have trouble anymore having sex.

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