I won’t have this again ☹️

[Seahorsefan]

I had amazing sex a couple of months ago - just one night.
I hadn’t had sex for about 6 years before but met a guy, was very attracted to him, lots of sexual tension and then one night while I was round at his I walked over, straddled him and started kissing him - full on! He reciprocated, carried me up the stairs, undressed me and gave me the best oral sex of my life, then PIV. The whole thing was amazing. We went back down stairs, chatted for a bit and listened to music, then went back to bed and did it all again.

Then he went away for the summer, and things went quiet. I met up with him once, but made it clear I didn’t want just casual sex so we just kissed. He said he thought we should be friends and I agreed.

I’m sort of regretting it now. I really like him, and am trying to forget him as I’ve been told unanimously in another post that it’s clear he doesn’t want a relationship (which I can see). I don’t want to be a FB / FWB but man I would love to sleep with him again!
I hope it’s not another 6 years for me 😩

Well only you can decide... If you want a relationship then go and find a man who feels the same....they are out there. The man you met made it clear he is not looking for a relationship so he is presumably just offering sex. If you decide you want more sex with him then no harm in asking. He can say no or he can say yes and you get to enjoy sex with with no strings attached...I guess it's your call at the end of the day...

I thought the was t was cut and pasted from a steamy novel.

I think perhaps you would only get sex of that quality from a man who is very well practiced, who maybe has sex several times per week or more.

long hiatuses really do effect the quality of sex for a man. Imagine it being his first time once or twice a year.

would this guy want to be in a monogamous relationship with infrequent sex?

His name wasn't Ian was it 🤔

It sounds like a steamy novel but it’s true! I’m so attracted to him he unleashed a side of me I haven’t seen in a long time. That’s why I’m having such a hard time.
I’ve decided to put my long term feelings above short term pleasure (because there’s no doubt I’d catch mega feelings, and want a relationship, which he doesn’t want).
it’s just so difficult! It was so good!