How soon is too soon!

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How soon is too soon to have sex with someone?

Would you say there is an unwritten rule or would you say when you feel ready?

Do you think men think less of women that have sex to soon?

I would say its a very individual thing. Don't worry about what other people do, do what feels right for you. I slept with DP on our second date and we've been together 11 years.

The man I married was my first and I waited a year with him!
We are now separated and I had sex the second time I met my new man.
Both experiences felt right at that time.

I had a nearly three year relationship with some one who I had sex with within 90 minutes of meeting.

I had another relationship that lasted nearly a year and we never had sex during that time although we did sleep together about five years later.

It is what feels right for you

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I had sex with my husband the first night we met. If believe if you're in the moment and it's what you both want then you shouldn't deliberately hold back. The risk sometimes can be that if you're sexual too early on without more substance, it can end up all about sex and become a casual sex arrangement. I've had experience of that with others but I tried not to overthink it and just went with what felt good in the moment.

Well you have to give the idea of playing hard-to-get don't you?

I think when you're dating you have to keep momentum , otherwise you lose interest.

I'd say if you've got to date six the spark is definitely not there.

I am similar to Justcashnosweets
My g/f and I slept together on our second date and we have now been together for 20 years and married for 18
It all depends on how you feel about each other.

Depends on the connection, the chemistry, if it feels right for both.

With my recent ex a ridiculously long time! it was for both of us our first relationship in almost a decade. I'd been cheated on twice by my DS's dad and it destroyed me, so wanted everything to go really slow. Just touching eachother and kissing was absolutely wow. Didn't have sex until we went on a little seaside mini break, and we'd been seeing eachother most evenings for around 2 months by that point. We broke up almost 5 months ago,mainly due to the large age gap, (I'm 22 years younger) just didn't work in the end. But omfg he knew what he was doing 😮

There's a guy (similar age to me this time!) I've had a flirty thing going on with on the school run the last few weeks, and when I next see him I'm going to make a move and find out if he's actually single. I feel like if I get a date with him, as soon as he's willing!! He's flipping stunning. But again I feel like when you know, you both just know.

Lol, most recent ex 2 months in, and yet he's been one of my shorter relationships. I've lasted years with people who I got down to it with on 2nd or 3rd date. Just shows its not a good indicator. Its more about the person and if they have capacity at the time or ever to form and enjoy a strong bond.

I've slept with people on the first date and I've waited weeks with others .
It's definitely an individual thing but I do love the tension that waiting brings .

The last time I had first date sex was 26 years ago. We're still married so it's a personal thing I feel.

First time nearly two months....but we had a weekend away and both knew and wanted it to happen...lovely experience as he was older and more experienced so really know what to do and lead me.

Since then anything from third to seventh date. Whatever felt right. Never a one night stand