Open House and fantasies!

[DreamToNightmare]

I’ve just finished watching a six part series called Open House which is basically about couples wanting to open up their relationships to other people, I.e threesomes and the like.

I loved watching it as threesomes are currently a big fantasy of mine at the moment and it’s only heightened my interest…

So can I ask, for those who’ve invited someone into their relationship, what was it actually like? Whose idea was it and how did it materialise?

And for those who haven’t, would you ever want to? And would you want it to FMF or MMF?

I love the idea of doing it with either sex….I don’t think I would be able to choose!!

Im sure there are lots of horror stories around threesomes destroying relationships, but there must be lots of amazing stories out there too???

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When I was at Uni (many, many years ago ),, my GFs female “friend” joined us for a MFF threesome , but my GF’s “friend” was more interested in having sex with my GF, really, so more of 2.5some, with me being the .5, pretty disappointing (for me), we broke up not long after that.

I think if we was to invite another woman into our sex life, it would probably make me not want to have sex with a man again.

I've had a lot of MFM threesomes. The experiences were nothing like that program.

This is my fear - I would worry that I would be all over the woman and then I would just keep craving sex with women instead of wanting sex with my partner.

Many years ago I was the “invited woman” and to be honest I was only there because I was attracted to the woman and I had no interest in him at all. It got to the point where she and I would meet up behind her boyfriend’s back so what was a “one-off fun threesome” in his eyes, ultimately became an affair between me and her. She and I continued seeing each other without him knowing for about 5 months and then he found out and as you can imagine, it all blew up.

I reckon a lot of FFM threesome are initiated under the guise of a man wanting to live out a common fantasy, where the reality is probably that his partner simply wants to have sex with a woman and his fantasy is simply a way to enable her to do that without it being classed as cheating.

In what way???

If I was to have a threesome, it would definitely be a FFM. I wouldn't want two men at once! FFM has always been a fantasy of mine, and my partners but I'm also scared that I'd enjoy it too much 😂 we've said one day we will do it, who knows if we will. Tempted to watch this series you talk about!

For my wife and I it was something we discussed openly. I can't really recall who first brought it up but we have an open marriage and we both have at least one FwB. I'd been in a previous open relationship where we also had threesome, exclusively FFM. We first had a MMF threesome as her FwB would be happy to do it. It stared off with me just watching, later we had a few non MM intimate threesomes, just my wife fucking and sucking us both but it just happened that whilst I was watching my wife give him a blow job he leaned over and started giving me one which was a very intense powerful moment.
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We continue to have MMF threesome with him.

We also have a couple with benefits which is mainly 'wife swap' for want of a better expression but most weekend includes both FFM and MMF threesomes and occasionally a fully intimate foursome.

We have, once, had a MM and FF night together.

We all kiss each other, often passionately, and the only thing off limits is anal sex which all of us have done and none of us enjoyed

We are all very comfortable with it and there is never any jealously at all.

I think my GF was probably what would be described as bi-curious these days, I think she is married with a couple of kids now.