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Should I approach ex for sex?

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Embarrassingisntit · 20/08/2022 16:07

Two years ago I met a man. The attraction was instant, best casual sex in the world. We worked so well together.
I think the mind blowing sex numbed our brains a bit because we decided to become a couple and then.. well sort of realised we didn't like eachother! We lasted about 2 months before I ended it, he wanted to stay in contact as "friends" but I ended up not making any effort.

Lately I have become what I can only describe as extremely horny. To the point of fantasising over inappropriate men. I don't want to use tinder and I don't want a proper relationship.. I am considering hitting up ex and seeing if he would be interested in some no strings attached. (I have checked his socials and he is single)

And thoughts? My desperate-ness may be clouding my judgment here.

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Zone2NorthLondon · 20/08/2022 16:20

In theory yes, in practice potentially murky. Unless you’re very boundaried and clear and explicitly discuss parameters and expectations
potentially you meet up for food pub,club and follow up with sex
But you didn’t like each other?so how that’s going to work, if you genuinely dislike each other

Embarrassingisntit · 20/08/2022 16:24

That's the thing I don't want to go for food with him.

We liked eachother naked.

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Zone2NorthLondon · 20/08/2022 16:28

So just shag then. He gets a booty call. You fuck he leaves

jen3121 · 20/08/2022 18:09

I have done this in the past and would definitely recommend 😆. In fact if my ex was single now I would be doing it again. I say as long as you both know it's just sex then go for it!!

MisterT373 · 20/08/2022 19:23

Go for it.

netflixandnaps · 20/08/2022 22:45

Absolutely not. Never go back - only forward....
(Sorry, that's just the narcissistic abuse trauma coming out from my ex)

Str8talker · 21/08/2022 09:31

What if he's with someone else, but 'forgets' to tell you? Move on...

Annabananna1 · 21/08/2022 09:35

I would. As long as you are both aware it's just sex.
He could come over, couple of drinks, amazing fuck, then he goes. Repeat a couple of times over a few weeks.
You've got yours and no ones got hurt.

Staynow · 21/08/2022 09:41

At least you know you like sex with him and don't have to worry about it getting messy as you both know you don't want anything more. Just be clear with him about what it is and if he's up for it then why not. I think there are far worse options to be honest.

Embarrassingisntit · 21/08/2022 09:53

I sent a casual message and asked how he was, turns out he does have a partner but just hasn't put anything on social media yet.
Oh well, was worth a try!

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