How do you keep sex exciting in a LTR

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I married my childhood sweetheart, both had little experience sexually, he never had a huge libido but this did not seem to be an issue at least for a few years, sometimes we’d go weeks without sex but this seemed normal for our relationship. It was always the same routine. We had a big discussion, things changed a little, I purchased some sex aids, DH had little interest in using these, I hadn’t orgasmed for years by this point. Things have got better but I crave so much more, I want us to experiment lots, have sex lots and lose our inhibitions but he does seem quite reserved about sex in general, I just want us to have amazing sex together.

you and me too kidder!

Find out what it is that's restricting his sense of adventure

He can't be uninhibited if he's psychologically or physically inhibited.

Try tantric

Sorry but that’s going to be tough ask, you can’t make somebody be interested in something they are just not interested in

I don't know. You were attracted to his slightly reserved nature at one point but now you want him swinging from the chandeliers?! I think a gradual progression into more adventurous sex is what is needed.

I agree that gradual exploration over time is best while remembering that you can't ever make transform into a different kind of lover. Just one thing at a time, take the initiative, suggest you try something in the same way that you might suggest a new recipe for dinner. Don't be afraid to try things that are primarily or entirely for your benefit. He may be delighted to please you in that way even if he doesn't get as much out of it himself sexually.

Can you learn hints and tips from the other sex threads?
The Sexy Secretary one. Some comments on clothes in a later one.
Or the out door one.
Have you considered the Dirty Talk one?
These ideas might enable you to lead him.