Sex after 60

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DH is 20 years older than me. He’s fit and relatively healthy. We have a great sex life currently however I know no one close enough to ask how sex in their relationship is 60+.

Is sex 60+ as attainable and frequent as it is in your 30s/40s?

Just want to know what to expect as time goes on.

Not sure if can help really, but I’m 53 (M) fit and mostly healthy, F partner is 59, a bit overweight but nothing serious

currently no issues with ED (for now), she is post menopausal so additional lube is needed, I would say her sex drive is probably stronger than mine so there is pretty much as much sex as I mange based on my age and recovery period.
we have both taken STI tests and dropped the condoms, obviously we are not the youngest people in world so there is no swinging from the chandeliers but at the same time no worries about unwanted pregnancies or periods, so all good really

My experience of this with my DH hasn't been great tbh. I'm 56 and he is 64. For probably around 5 years he has had no spontaneous erections. Viagra gives a pretty good response but if we move to any other position than missionary then he loses his erection. He never masturbates, doesn't seem bothered. I on the other hand really want sex. I'm going to buy a vibrator I think. I wish we could talk about it more and of course that's not just down to him being over 60 but my experience hasn't been great...

65 here , frequent sex with Dh age 66 , buy a sex toy and use it with him , at the worst use it on your own frequently , be vocal when cumming .
enjoy xx .

Thanks everyone. We do have a very healthy sex life right now, already lots of toys used (we’re not shy). My only worry is when he hits 60+ and I’m in my 40s will we be completely mismatched sexually but good to hear that might not be the case!

We are both 75 and sex is almost never now but that is partly down to her having loads of other health issues. Until 3 years ago we were still doing it often.

My husband is a lot older than me. We have had great sex throughout his 60s and 70s with no problems at all really. Most recently few wee issues but nothing horrendous. He is very fit and no major health problems - if your husband is similar I wouldn't worry at all.

My only worry is when he hits 60+ and I’m in my 40s will we be completely mismatched sexually

You might be, but it may be him that wants it more than you. My husband is 60+, quite a bit older than me. His sex drive hasn’t decreased since we got together over twenty years ago. He would happily do it twice a day, every day. More often probably. There are always exceptions that prove the rule, but generally we have compromised on at least once on days I don’t work. Weekends, holidays etc. I totted it up once when I saw one of the frequent “How often do you have sex” threads and it must be around 250 times a year.

It’s enough to keep me more than satisfied.