Loss of libido ruining our relationship

[triplerainbow2022]

Hey ladies quite embarrassed about thus and didn't know where to turn..

Me and my partner of 4 years are really struggling with my pgrenancy, I am now 24 weeks and we have only had sex a handful of times, we split for the first three as we were arguing lots and I didn't want to stress the baby, I have had 2 ectopics lost both tubes and babies, then paid for ivf which ended in misscarriage, this is baby number 4, I was so anxious to have sex at the start so avoided for 3 months.
We don't live together and see eachother weekends, which I now dread due to him constantly truing to get sex and then ending in a row or a hostile environment for hours after I've said no! I've told him it's uncomfortable and hurts, but he still tried it until I make myself do if to keep him happy even though I'm so uncomfortable with it.
It's causing a massive wedge between us and I've now split with him because I canr keep doing this every weekend I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall.
Hes said his exs were pregnant horny and googled that women get hornier but I am not! I feel terrible to the point I've cried when he keeps trying it.
Just looking for some general advice or maybe I needed a rant I don't know, just at a lose cause :(

It wouldn’t matter if every other woman in the world became hornier when pregnant (which they don’t). What is important is that you don’t want to have sex and he is not respecting your decision.

You have absolutely done the correct thing ending your relationship with this man. It is not your loss of libido that has ruined this relationship, it is your ex partners behaviour and lack of respect for you.

You are much better off without him

💐

Okay, so you purposely had ivf to get pregnant with a man who has already made a few other women pregnant, whom you don't actually even live with?? - that was gonna work 😏

The need for u to be so rude, is uncalled for, and shows what kind of person you are.
I spent my 13k of my dads inheritance to get my embryos and losing both tubes and ivf being my only route, I wasn't about to go oh okay il just chuck them away 🙄 we had intentions of living together until now which is what I stated were now having problems since been pregnant! He works away hence why we only saw eachother at weekends. I Was asking for advice not vile comments.
Take you're nastiness elsewhere

Thanks so much, I agree I am definitely better of without him, I just feel like a terrible person, he says he has needs 🙄 every time the argument has come up he's said he will leave it, then it happens again, felt like I was banging my head on a brick wall x

And what the hell him having an 18 year old son with previous partner has to do with me losing my libido.. I will never know, your comment makes no sence, keep it to yourself, aload of waffle