What do men like in sexting?

[FireandBrimstone]

Connected and slept with someone recently (IRL)... thereafter messaging turned into sexting (which I was ok about, but I really wasn't sure I was saying the kind of things that 'did it' for him).
If you're a guy, what do you want to read from your sexts?
Is it more of a turn on to read about what's 'done to you' or more about what you're doing to/with her?
Are you secretly hoping the chat will just turn into exchanging photos or videos instead of words? (I won't go there!)

I personally like it as a two way street but just go with what you're comfortable with

@Nomad98 yes this was two way texting but I still want some thoughts so I can consider whether my contributions are hitting the spot...

Speaking as a male, if you go along the lines of, what you’re wearing, what you are doing and how badly you want him, you won’t go far wrong.

Just describe the type of sex you'd like to have... take your time with it.. say what turns you on and I'm sure it will have the same effect his end!

@FireandBrimstone I'm sure you will be hitting the spot...you'll find out soon enough next time you get together

Thanks for the encouragement

Personally I like the “what we are going to next “, style

My partner works away during the week so sexting is our way of keeping the relationship going - we usually tell each other how we are feeling and what we would like to do to them when we see each other next - keeps the re-unions very passionate!
stick with what you are comfortable with - we exchange pics now but took me time before I was willing to do that, we also have lots of fun video calls of an evening too.

DH worked away on contracts, before internet so had to write letters.
We got good at writing about what we had done:- positions, what I was wearing at the time.
He wrote more in detail, more about what he would like next.
Mostly our thoughts were fiction/wishes/dreams. But very enjoyable.

I find the more graphic the better. Anything to do with tight wet pussies and it involving their huge you know what. Good to have a bit of flattery thrown in. 👌

Best to it when you are both masturbating. That way you can give each other some instructions.

That is really!!! hot

@Furrbabymama1987 flattery will get you anywhere😉

It doesn't have to be about masturbating all the time. I personally would enjoy asking my wife what was she was wearing that day. And then go into detail about how I couldn't wait to see her to undress her. Knowing she was wearing something 'just for me later' was always a huge turn on for me.
We also found we would admit/confess/ ask about things we'd probably never have done in real life. A long day build up of sexting would lead to some passionate and incredible sex for both of us.

i finf generally any sort of sexual chat starts things rolling, depends how long into the relationship you are, if it's early can talk about previous things you've done, or maybe things you'd like to do, i dated a lady for a while and due to distance we chatted in the week, started of quite general, but usually turned quite erotic, and often ended with her asking to watch me masturbate on webcam, just depends what you are comfortable with and take it slowly

I like the messages were you are both involved and it builds up to very explicit sexual happening (in the chat this is) .

What you're wearing, then you're kissing, then passionately, taking off clothes, kissing boobs, say how wet/hard you are, how much you want to be licking/sucking their bits, then you're fucking and finally tell them how you cum. This builds up over many messages and it can be very intense.