Finding this weird

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Hi all. New partner and the first time we DTD I’m in new lingerie Etc. He’s great in bed to a degree but .. never takes my bra off or even touches my tits at all.
I’d wondered about this before so didn’t say anything (he made up for it in other areas ) kinda anyway
this is odd isn’t it? I’m normal build, good body, bigger bust, so for me no tits makes me feel weird
has anyone else every had a tit averse man?

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Maybe he’s not a boob man, did you mention it to him?

I've got big boobs, all men I've been with were into them massively apart from one ex who never paid them much attention. He came out as gay a few years after we ended. Most people when they really fancy their partner, enjoy looking at and paying attention to sexual body parts. Things like feet are niche, but it's pretty standard for a heterosexual male to like breasts.

I thought.he wants to meet again and I’m confused

But to not touch AT ALL ?

No. They stayed in the bra

Umm.. as a bloke.. I like boobs in bras.. but I definitely like to touch..

Perhaps you should remove your bra yourself - he might be thinking you don't want them touched as you've kept your bra on

My main FwB for a few years didn't like me touching her boobs and she also didn't remove her bra during sex.

This, she informed me, was because she'd previously had breast cancer and her then husband had been very insensitive about it which in turn made her hate her own boobs.

It took several years before she felt comfortable with me even seeing them and then touching and kissing them.

Maybe your new partner has had some similar experience and is cautious,

Do talk to him, I'm very much a tits man, maybe he just isn't but you should know.

The only way you’re going to find out is by asking him, if you don’t want to do it in person, then send him a message. We can all guess why he may not have made contact with your boobs but the only person who can answer that honestly is him.

Think you need to ask...usual in my experience. All boyfriends pre DH all couldn't wait to get there, and most liked sucking my nipples as part of it, as does DH. I would be really sad if he didn't find them a turn in and want to feel and suck them. However, it is so,e thing that really turns me on having it done to me so would be a red line really