High sex drive

[shien]

Hi
My age is 30 and my husband is 40 I have a very high sex drive which affect me and my husband have a low sex drive I have no idea how to solve this issue any advice please ???
Anyone have seem problem and how solved it ??

@shien This is a really horrible situation to be in. A mis-matched libido in a relationship can destroy it.

You don't say how long this has been going on for - there maybe lots of reasons his sex drive is apparently low - stress, health, fitness, depression etc.
Are there young children in the house? has the situation changed recently?

A guy in his early 40's shouldn't be prone to ED, but anything is possible.
It could be worth him talking to his doctor, but he is unlikely to do so if he doesn't think there is an issue.

You can maybe start by discussing the issue with him. It's difficult, but not talking about things won't make anything better.

Think about getting away for a weekend, and talk to him. Explain how you feel, and listen to him. Getting this out in the open is the first step in resolving it.

We have been for two years and we do not have children because iam thinking to leave him if this problem not solve betwween us but he is handsome and nice person and helpful man . I love him and happy with many think only this he is low drive sex and he always say will change and also told me you asked a lot we are different level maybe the problem in me as I have an abnormal desire iam thinking to visit Gp maybe can give me something to make us equal in sex do you think GP can help for solve my abnormal desire maybe there is a medicine for reduce

@shien
Firstly, and most importantly, and I can't emphasise this strongly enough - There is absolutely nothing "abnormal" with you.

I suspect that quite the opposite is true. Bear in mind I'm no expert!

You are a young woman in the prime of her childbearing years. My guess is that your body is telling you that it's time to procreate, and that is resulting in your high sex drive. I don't think a GP will be able to give you anything, as what's happening is possibly hormonal.

Think about why you married him - you obviously care for him, but -

Do you love him? Can you see a future with him? Can you see yourself having children with him? (Does he want children?) If the answer is no, then maybe leaving him is the right thing to do.

However, how long might it take you to find someone that wants the same things as you do?

I'm not going to condone anything untoward, but you could consider discussing things like an open marriage / partner swapping / swinging - at least that way you might get some sexual relief without ruining your existing relationship.