Vagina after kids

[Kitten2]

I feel a bit conscious after having had my kids that I'm definitely a lot looser than before. I have also had a long term partner with a very large penis so I am probably quite stretched from that too. Certainly no longer 'tight'.

How much does it matter? Does it make it terrible for male partner, this partner has a smaller penis.
Sometimes I just worry that he can't like it that much. He hasn't said anything about it. But it's possible he is disappointed.

I am 30 and wondering if this is something I have to deal with / think about forever. Or if there's something I can do. Or (hopefully) that maybe it doesn't even matter that much. It's just on my mind.
I wish I'd been more grateful for my pre-kids vagina, never gave it a second thought.

I've had a number of partners who've had kids and some who haven't. I've never noticed anything different to be honest. I find that technique is something that can make a difference far more than how tight the vagina is.

My wife has the same concerns as you. But as I keep telling her, its all good down there. Feels great!

ladies who have had babies are exquisitely equipped.

Another bloke...my partner has had children. I've not noticed any difference. I'm perfectly average and she feels lovely! I would not give it another thought but if you are worried kegel exercises are very good at firming things up they say....

Thank you for the reassurance.

I find that technique is something that can make a difference

What do you mean by this? Not to be too graphic but what exactly would be good technique?

Technique is important whatever the size or shape of your vagina.

By far the most important part for me is enthusiasm - if I feel my partner is really turned on, having fun and 'gagging' for it that is the best feeling for me. The complete opposite of lying there in silence if you see what I mean?

One thing that works for me is when my wife is on top is having her push back and at the same time lift up - this really rubs the old boy in the right place. Takes a little practice but worth mastering.

But seriously, enthusiasm is the key to giving your man a good time.