Potential threesome with a couple

[Lavendersparkles22]

I'm a member of that famous swinging site, and have had some good experiences with men on there. I've really been getting my groove back sexually and would like to do something completely different.

I was contacted by a couple, slightly younger than me, and I'm really interested in being their first threesome experience if the social meet goes well. Issue is, I don't know what I'm doing either.

Currently discussing boundaries and what we like, but is there anything a new girl should know? Experiences welcomed!!

Speaking from personal experience, you all need to be happy with the chemistry / connection. A good social meet doesn't necessarily mean there will be a sexual connection, so have an escape plan in mind!
(I didn’t need one, but it’s good to have it!)

The couple I met had done threesomes before, but it was my first time, and they were very relaxed, and made me feel very welcome / at ease.

The fact that you are discussing boundaries is a good sign – make sure that you are happy with each other’s, and do not do anything in the heat of the moment that you might regret.

Our first meet was a "soft swing" (No penetration) meet, which I was happy to abide by, and it gave us all confidence that we could take things further next time.

Other than that, take your own protection / lube / anything else you might need or want and go with the flow.
Enjoy!

They have time to disappear in a puff of smoke yet. With that site, I have a saying.

I only start getting exited when they are stood in front of me. Lol.

Great that you're discussing boundaries. Be as thorough as you can. Consider all eventualities.

A unicorn friend of mine had a bad experience because the wife left the bedroom to use the loo and was very upset when she returned to see that the husband and my friend had continued without her. Apparently the couple had agreed not to engage in any sexual activity without the other being present but had not communicated that boundary to my friend. He was a dick for crossing that line.

I think you also need a signal to communicate if one person is feeling left out and what happens in that situation.

Threesomes are loads of fun if planned properly!