"Tasting" me.

[Ladyof2022]

NC for this as embarrassing.

Been chatting online with a potential FWB. We swapped what kind of things we like in bed.

Then he said, "I look forward to tasting you."

For some reason, this made my stomach churn. It's really put me off meeting him. Now I can't stop thinking about that phrase "tasting you" and trying to work out why it makes me cringe.

I don't like the idea of my minge being regarded as a glass of wine, to be sipped, savoured and judged. It makes me shudder to think of him focussing so much on what I taste like, rather than on giving me pleasure.

Is it just me that finds this phrase "icky"? I really want to know if I am being prudish, or do many/most/all women cringe at this?

I’d love to hear this from someone I was lining up to be a FWB

I've no problem with the words 'tasting you' but saying 'minge' is the height of icky for me. Each to their own, OP. Just tell him it's a problem.

Smell and taste are an important thing for many guys. It is for me. It's not worth getting upset over because he is likely to be enthusiastic about giving you lots of pleasure with his tongue, isn't that what you want?