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Not sexually attracted to DH anymore

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SugarandSpice09 · 14/04/2022 10:04

If you no longer feel attracted, or sexually attracted to your DH anymore, is that the end of the relationship?
Can you ever get it back?

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lonelySam · 14/04/2022 15:09

In my experience Yes it is the end of the relationship unless you and your DP are ok with not having sex and no, you cannot get it back. (At least that's my experience)

vincettenoir · 14/04/2022 18:46

I think sex drive is a movable feast. It wanes at times for a lot of people but usually comes back after a time. I would try to work out if the issue is your general sex drive or your feelings about your DP.

NorthGirlie · 17/04/2022 18:13

I wasn’t attracted to my DH but decided to stay as I felt guilty feeling the way I did. Big mistake! Led to a sexless marriage of over a decade and deep unhappiness for me. Menopause caused me to go crazy. Less tolerant, horny as hell and I sought out male company elsewhere. Wrong but I feel very bitter at staying in a marriage where only one person was happy. I ended my marriage. Wish I had done it sooner.
You can’t fake attraction.

dogfishman · 19/04/2022 15:31

Am a chap. There is a certain amount of waxing and waning and a natural decline with time. But once it's been replaced by "ick" or utter indifference, it's really gone, IME.

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